Any suggestions or opinions on what I should do next? Will he come back?

[Anonymous]

So i was dating this
guy for a few weeks everything was going great. As soon we met we clicked and always had a good time. Like two weeks ago we went on a date. He asked me if I wanted him to drive my car. i know it was my fault to but i didn’t think in the moment so i was like ok. so that night we got into a little car accident. I was very mad stressed didn’t think that would happen. He was very sorry and said he will help fix my car. The next day we hung out we went out to try to distract our selves from everything that has happened. i noticed that both of us were just not the same anymore. I feel i had sort of resentment towards him. so as the days went by we started to be distant with each other. I was still mad of what had happened so like a week ago i just cut him off. Ever since he wasn’t reached out or neither have i. We still have each other on social media. i notice he tries avoiding my stories and posts. He used to be one of the first ones to watch my stories now he just doesn’t. My question here will be come back.

[SueShe]

Actually, what happened (the accident) is actually a blessing for you, albeit probably an expensive blessing.

He simply has shown his real personality and character and this accident was the catalyst for something that you had failed to see in him.

I don't think that he will come back and if he does, I believe that you should not accept him back because he is the kind of superficial person. I am also quite certain that you will never see a cent from him for the repairs of your car. Finally, you are also to blame for what happened because one never suggests to another person to drive your own car.

It was an expensive lesson for you but I hope you have learned something from it.

[Asker]

You are very right. Thank you for your feedback. Have to move on and learn my lesson the hard way

[SueShe]

I am sorry for you that it had to be that way. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

I have a feeling he’s not going to come back. You both made mistakes; him for wanting to drive an unfamiliar vehicle, and you for allowing him to drive your car. Whether or not he caused the accident, he caught a glimpse of how you respond to conflict. You got mad, stressed, and then became distant. You both shut down and things became awkward.

[JacobJordan]

Why are you mad at him for something neither of you could control. It wasn't like he deliberately got in an accident. And yet you are treating him like he kicked your dog. Why would he want to come back when you have borderline vilified him as the result of an accident. You need to sincerely apologize to him and let go of that anger real quick and then maybe he'll consider spending time with you again. You really messed this up so you gotta fix it

[DannyUk2017]

You better off without him, sounds like a person that does not take responsabilities how it should be, either that is in something involved like (the accident) nor in a Relationship. Lots of Red flags there...🤷‍♂️

[sheikalana]

He probably saw a side of you that he didn’t like that night that turned him off. I wouldn’t be waiting for him anymore.

[boggboss]

Why would he come back when u cut him off also 😅

[Asker]

i was very upset with him that’s why i cut him off. He was indifferent with me. but now that i’m calm I feel bad. i want to kinda reach out but i don’t want to look dumb if he leaves me on read 🙄

[boggboss]

If I don't want to reach out move on lol