How many rejections does it take to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Im up at 4 this month, i just want to know on average how many tries will it take

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, I don't know if there's really an average number of rejections. It kinda depends on the situation and the girl. And you can't really look at it like a numbers game either, cuz that'll just mess with your head.

That being said, don't get too discouraged about 4 tries so far. Asking girls out takes courage, so props to you for putting yourself out there. A few things that may help - try joining some clubs or sports teams so you can meet more girls in a low pressure setting. Common interests break the ice.

Also, focus on just having fun conversations at first before asking girls out. Make them laugh, ask questions to get to know them. Don't come on too strong. The more comfortable they feel, the better chance of a yes.

And don't take it personally if you do get rejected. Their answer has nothing to do with your worth. Keep your confidence and move on to the next one! You got this man, just stay positive. The right girl will say yes eventually.

[Flatmanlewis]

Some people get more than others.
Some people get less than others.
There are a lot of factors besides just asking girls out. Where are you meeting them? What are you bringing to the table? Is your approach a cold “Hey, wanna go out?” to a stranger? Is it to some girl who placed you squarely in the friendzone months ago? Is it at a bar where girls are more likely to expect guys to hit on them?

[NathanDavis]

it isn't about how many times you ask...

it is about what do you have to "offer" to someone... and it is about who you are and how you are

relationships are not charity

[spartan55]

There's no magic number, it depends on so many variables. The important thing is to not let rejection cripple your self confidence. If you feel like that might be happening take a break.

[andreasderjuengere]

When you fall in love with someone 4 times a month - then you'll still be rejected in 10 years from now.

Girls aren't collectors' items :)

[Nifrayu]

Zero. Well unless I'm supposed to count the women I rejected. In which case I'm not sure. Less than 5 before I had my first girlfriend I think.

[Anonymous]

It varies man. But even the most successful guys generally get rejected 10 times for everytime they're successful. So I would get used to about a 90% rejection rate at least.

[Teabaggin]

It's not about rejection