What do you imagine your “ideal girl” to be like?

[chele_bell]

What are the most appealing aspects of physical traits and personality that would attract you to a girl?

[modeunae]

She'd look something like this:

Be feminine and submissive to a great degree, be okay with my having other girls thereby not being possessively jealous (a bit of jealousy here and there is fine), even to the point that she can introduce me to her cute friends and sisters if she has any, be around the average female height (like about 159-164cm, at most 175cm), be a believer in Christ or be willing to genuinely switch from whatever she believes (probably an atheist) to being a lover of Christ; healthy and fit. She'd have a mostly traditional mindset, with no tattoos, or sexual or romantic experience.

[chele_bell]

She’s very pretty 😍that’s a good woman you described

[modeunae]

Thank you. It's not often that a woman hears or reads what my ideal kind of woman is and celebrates that, or even compliments it all the way. Now tell me, if you don't mind. Why do you think the kind of woman I've described as 'ideal' is a good choice or a good woman?

[AviatorTom]

The "ideal girl" is an impossibility, but if she existed, she would be drop-dead gorgeous, fantastic in bed, be a world-class chef, and be willing to do whatever I asked of her.

Like I said, there's no such thing as the "ideal girl".

[chele_bell]

What kinds of food would you like a girl to know how to Cook?

[AviatorTom]

@chele_bell The "ideal girl" should know how to cook every dish imaginable. Again, not possible.

IMHO, the "realistic girl" should know how to cook her native cuisine, and be able to follow recipes for other cuisines.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Physically I'm very flexible with but personality I seek for a supportive, kind, playful, fun, high morals, loyal and a believer of Christ, if she rejects the savior she rejects me as well, although if what God has planned for me is a woman that doesn't believe but I'll manage to help her believe, I don't see a problem with that either.

[chele_bell]

Nice to see another follower of Christ! Finding someone who believes in God is my number one priority when dating. Be careful and try to find someone who wants to follow God as well. It will make your relationship with that person much better if you are both on the same page and have the same values. I’ve tried to help an ex boyfriend come to Christ before and it didn’t work out and ultimately led me to go against god instead of get closer to him. Find someone who brings you closer to the things you love. I don’t know his plan for you but I know he wants us to grow with him so just keep that in mind. Much love ❤️

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's some clean advice Bell, you have no idea how refreshing it is to see someone else that sees the importance of the involvement of God in their marriage or relationship, I guess I'll learn from your mistake and stick to a woman that's a believer of christ, I appreciate the guidance, unfortunately the person you cared about didn't want to change but I'm sure God has a wonderful plan for you, you keep looking if you haven't found your person already, blesses 💯🙏🏽

[chele_bell]

I agree it is very refreshing 🙌

[ChicoFromThe305]

💯💯💯

[Hungryghostwriter]

I like the typical sweet girl who is introverted like me. I have no preference in body types, I've been with petite and thick and I like both. I guess the only physical preference I have is that I prefer her eyes being closer together rather than far apart 😅

[chele_bell]

👁️ 👁️

[Hungryghostwriter]

👀...

[Heolurt]

I used to imagine her with really beautiful eyes that sparkle when she smiles, she has a beautiful gummy smile and when she sheds tears of joy it's like diamonds falling, she likes me for me and sees past my face and when angry she never shames me, and she is someone who is able to make me believe in the existence of "love" and I just naturally know what it is because I always feel it around her.

But she doesn't exist, at least not for me and I'm ok living alone until I die.

[chele_bell]

God has a plan for everyone, I hope you find your special lady one day 🙏☺️

[Heolurt]

God's plan for me is to die alone, no girl ever wants a guy with a face like mine, not when I look like Sloth from the Goonies.

[exitseven]

I would imagine she would have to be compassionate, intelligent and sweet. She would have to be hot too.

[chele_bell]

Awesome thanks for the input!

[KonkeyDong]

I like me a dorky girl. Someone on the shy side.

A Girl on the taller spectrum.

Not terribly pretty, but certainly cute.

Glasses are a plus.

[chele_bell]

😅you sorta described me haha

[KonkeyDong]

Interesting!

[chele_bell]

Are you Christian?

[KonkeyDong]

Actually, I am! Funny you ask!

[chele_bell]

I’d love to message you if you are interested! If not that’s Okie haha. Lemme know😊

[NathanDavis]

smart, interesting, funny...

and genuinely confident in herself...

[chele_bell]

Okay thank you!

[NathanDavis]

most welcome

[Staximus]

Honest, caring, considerate, nice and sweet to me but foul mother and ill tempered with the general public, doesn't have a lazy vagina

[Staximus]

Not foul mother, foul mouthed haha

[chele_bell]

Why do you want her to be ill tempered to other people hahah

[ThrillSeeker01]

Firm chest and cute butt, and a cool personality I can connect with

[chele_bell]

Okay nice 👍

[John_Cobretti]

Someone who is always laughing and cheerful
Physically nothing much.. just not too fat

[chele_bell]

Haha cool thanks! Can you please tell me why most guys don’t want to date heavier women? I’m skinny so it doesn’t affect me, but I’m curious.

[John_Cobretti]

Well I didn't mean chubby or slightly fat girls which most guys have no issues...
I was talking about morbidly obese ones.. if that makes sense ykwis..

[chele_bell]

Ahhhh gotcha

[leonidas84]

Chemistry. Physical attraction and vibes

[chele_bell]

👍👍👍