Can we stop the harmful rhetoric that women over 30 are “used up whores” if they never got married? I spent my 20s not even dating lol?

[Anonymous]

Actually wasted my entire 20s just listening to all those shit sexist podcasts and feeling bad about myself, if I’m being honest lol…

I think any men (or even women) that subscribe to these toxic ideologies are bad people who don’t realize how much this is really harming others.

[jahaims]

What is and isn't toxic is subjective when it comes to this. You are basically just saying you are insecure because people have different ideas and or opinions from your own. That is on you.

[rigmarole]

Why did you spend 10 years watching podcasts about used up whores? What did you get out of it?

[Asker]

I listened to it mostly out of fear. I discovered that world at like 24 years old and worried I wouldn’t be married by 30. It got to my head so much. And I wanted to get married so I thought I had to mold myself to a completely different person, and I thought ALL men thought the way red pill men think.

[rigmarole]

Well a lot of women do party and do the nightclub/bar thing in their 20s and have a lot of messy relationships which tends to jade them and make them less desirable. That said, someone that didn't get into a bunch of trouble in that lifestyle isn't plagued with the same character flaws.

[Anonymous]

Agreed. its ridiculous to judge people like that

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with everything you say

[Asker]

It’s dehumanizing and toxic. And inaccurate. I literally adhered to what a “good woman” would comprise of and men were still assholes.
And who cares if a woman had sex with guys outside of a relationship! Society just doesn’t want women to enjoy sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly it's very toxic

[ThrillSeeker01]

Any examples? I know they're out there