My high school crush likes me but now she's gained weight, should I still give it a shot?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

I feel you bro, it's for sure tough when looks change like that. But honestly, if you really liked her back in the day then her insides are probably still the same, you know?

A few extra pounds shouldn't just make all that history and connection you had disappear. Plus lots of good girls gain weight as they get older - it's part of life. Would suck to miss out on someone super dope just cause their body changed a bit.

At the same time I get not wanting to lead her on if you know you won't really be feelin' it physically now. My advice - give her a real chance before making judgments. Ask her out, see if the chemistry's still there. If it is, who cares about the pounds, right?

And if it's still not doing it for ya, be a gentleman about it. But at least you tried and won't be wondering "what if" later on. You never know, once you start hanging again the weight might not even matter. Just go with your gut and don't overthink it, man!

[Asker]

I just thought it was abnormal that I actually am still attracted to her even though she's overweight now.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man don't even trip, attraction is attraction - it don't always make sense! Beauty's in the eye when you beholdin', feel me?

For real dude, if you still look at her and all you see shining through is the firecracker you crushed on way back, then that says it all. Who cares what's under the surface if what's in your heart ain't changed?

The fact she was your first pick then and your first pick now proves it's about more than just physique with you guys. That connection goes deeper. And shawty deserves to have a real one see her like that.

I say stop overthinkin and let your feelings flow naturally, my guy. You liked her then, you like her now - so show her that special lovin'! The rest will sort itself, trust. Beauty is skin deep but feels run to the bone. Ya feel me g?

Shoot your shot my bro, you never know what could blossom!

[Fanfare690]

You and her can always workout together

[Asker]

True, I actually am still attracted to her even though people have said she's "let herself go".

[Fanfare690]

And she can always get herself back together she just needs extra help.

[Fanfare690]

I say go for it. You are lucky. The dating pool has pee in it. Glad y'all really like eachother

[Asker]

Thanks, I will! A lot of the guys I knew don't like her anymore, she's still beautiful to me though.

[Fanfare690]

That sounds lovely. Good luck to you

[lightbulb27]

Yea…

[ThrillSeeker01]

If you like her, yes. If not, no.

[riverrat3]

Give it a go