Is it weird to still wanna date my middle school crush when she's gained weight?

[Anonymous]

I ran into her again recently and she's put on quite a few pounds since I last saw her. She turned me down in middle school but said she made a mistake, turns out she wants to go out with me now. I still feel something for her.

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Go on the date. You still see her as who she was. That's why it doesn't bother you.
We have a inner image of people and an outer image of them.

She can always lose the weight. Then she's everything you wanted right?
I've noticed people around me start to think about health more serious because I'm an embodiment of good health. That's how environment works. So you can get her to lose weight without asking her. She probably already wants to. Who doesn't? So go on the date.

I think so many people see that they shouldn't have turned down the people who wanted them the most. Because what you're looking for is in that person not in the person who you want but doesn't want you.

[Asker]

I still felt she was everything I wanted even with the weight, my heart skipped a beat when she said she wanted to go out with me.

[Fanfare690]

She can always lose the weight. There you have it.

[Billlewis]

Not only that, but you're a pleasingly plump woman, and you're easily one of the hottest women in the world.

[Fanfare690]

@Billlewis how did you know I was plump? 😂

[Billlewis]

Because I always look for your comments, ma'am. I've been begging you to follow me, so I can give you these compliments directly. Maybe if you're in a good mood, you'll consider making my dreams come true, Goddess ❤️

[Wausguy85]

Weight doesn't matter weight loss should always be up to that person not anyone else

[Wausguy85]

Go for it mate if you are interested and find her attractive

[jahaims]

Have fun with the leftovers