Has anyone dated an Indian ( man, woman) what was your experience?
Well, she told me that she came here almost specifically for the music and, as I'm a huge record collector, we got on great together because I taught her about LOADS of great music she'd never heard of before and eventually fell in love with but, she WAS a bit on the strange side! Although I sort of saw us as another John & Yoko, things started getting a tad weird after about 3 years. On old friend of hers from Iran suddenly showed up at least 2 years in and just DECIDED that she was gonna live with us! She didn't ask and wasn't invited, she just decided to move in! One night, we were all in bed together and my girlfriend asked me to offer to fuck her friend. I did, reluctantly and, thankfully, she declined.
After 10 years away, my 2nd girlfriend suddenly popped into my life again and my girlfriend found out she'd written me a letter, read it and decided that she was gonna LET ME go back to the ex, which I had no intention of doing!! Being friends with her, again, would've been nice but, I wasn't interested in fucking her, again!
Shortly after the Iranian girl showed up, my girlfriend's step brother came over to start going to college and also decided to stay with us! So, now, we've got 5 people living in a place that was intended for just one or two! My girlfriend's ex-hubby was living in the spare rooms on the third floor! (She was still married to him but they broke up after he decided to get a sex change. Once he got it, he decided he didn't want it and went back to being a guy.) One day, she & decided this is getting to be too much and decided to try to find another place just for us. We found a tiny sublet a few blocks away but, as soon as we moved in, the others came with us!! Well, my parents were only about 10 miles away so, I opted to move back in with them and let the other four try to fit into that tiny space. Her step-brother was madly in love with some girl in India and had found out she chose to marry another guy so, he decided to have a wreck and kill himself on the turnpike about 100 miles away in his tiny rental car. We found out about this and had the police take him away just before he planned to do it. They put him in the psych ward about 5 blocks away.
The landlady, across the street saw this and also noticed there were all these men (3 of us) going in and out of that place and thought the girls were operating a whore house so, she had them all kicked out after just 3 weeks!! We have no idea where the Iranian girl went but the ex-hubby moved back in with HIS mother for a while and she & I found another place, a sublet, about 15 miles away. It was just for the summer and we were supposed to watch this girl's dog and cats. Once we got in, ex-hubby came back, too!! I discovered I couldn't stay there because of the dog and cats that I was fiercely allergic to so, again, I went back home. Eventually, she talked the owner of the house into letting her stay on the first floor once he finished fixing it up. So, after the girl came back from Paris, we moved down there for a while. Again, ex-hubby came along! She decided she wanted a dog so, we got a used one and, I soon found out I was allergic to her, too!! So, BACK HOME I went!! Then, she got another dog to keep the first one company, which I was also allergic to! (Some dogs, I'm not allergic to but, she had a knack for picking ones I couldn't be around.)
Round about this time, she stopped fucking me and wouldn't even let me kiss her, hold her hand or put my arm around her in public because "it showed ownership"! Had I known what was coming in about 5 years, I would've just dropped her like a bad habit right then and there!! At least 3 or 4 years later, she started cheating on me with another guy!! I didn't find out for at least a year & a half! When I did, I had nothing more to do with her! She said she was gonna marry him. A year later, she left him and went back to India. A year or two later, she accused me of trying to fuck her niece and I stopped talking to her from then on!! Last I heard, she's teaching some kind of classes at a university in Denmark.
It WAS REALLY nice the first few years we were together but, the longer I stayed, the worse she got!! About a year before I broke up with her, she said to me that she couldn't understand why MEN are so fucked up!! REALLY? Take a look in the mirror, you fucking psycho cunt!
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I've never dated one, per se, but I once served a young Indian woman (she was born here, so she didn't have an accent) who lived with her American boyfriend as a personal maid and servant. I don't think she weighed more than a hundred pounds, but she used to thrash me within an inch of my life every time I went to clean their condo.
Yes. I love how affectionate and respectful the men were. I like an attentive man as well but being overly clingy was suffocating. They wouldn't take no for an answer most times and I pretty much could not break up with them. They will constantly try to keep making things work but sometimes effort isn't enough. Ghosting is not okay but when someone won’t let you go… sometimes you gotta go into hiding until they get the message. Dont answer the phone, door, etc. And i haaaaate the suicidal talk of “if you leave me, i’ll do this…”
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I have never dated anyone from that culture. Something to consider is whether or not she wishes to adhere to many of their cultural customs or is interested in acclaim to different western standards.
I've never really met someone from India in person before
Yes, briefly. But totally Americanized.
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