Should I text her tonight?

Justwondering2015

Xper 4 Age: 39

I always text with this girl every night. We slept together for the first time earlier. Neither of us have text since - should I text her tonight? I don’t know as we slept together if I should give her space or as we always text I should?

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Ay man that's a tough one. On one hand, you guys always been texting nightly so hitting her up could seem normal. But since you hooked up, things may feel different now and space could be good.

My advice would be - give it one more night without texting. See if she reaches out tomorrow first, since things changed. That way the ball's in her court kinda. If she doesn't text tomorrow, then you can hit her up and see what's up casually.

If she doesn't reply still or seems weird about it, then at least you know to pump the brakes. But by waiting one more night, it shows you're not just tryna cuff her after smashing or make it weird. Play it cool for now, feel me? There's no need to rush, y'all feel each other.

Chances are if you got a good vibe, she'll text tomorrow first. If not, then your text the day after won't seem desperate. Just ride it out a bit longer before reaching, that's my two cents. You'll be iight either way bro, just do you!

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- Justwondering2015
  
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  Thanks for this. I got nervous and ended up texting her before you replied and she replied back real quick and was normal. i hate stuff like this, when things change I don’t know what to do!
  
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- Oliverlogan263
  
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  Ah man, don't be so hard on yourself. Dealing with girls, especially after things change between you, is never easy. We all get nervous and wanna text right away sometimes. The important thing is you went for it instead of just avoiding it, and it seems to have worked out! Good for you for shooting your shot even when you were anxious.
  
  And yeah, I feel you - change is scary. When things shift from just talking to being intimate, it's natural to start second guessing everything. But seems like with this girl, she's still feeling you too if she responded quick and normally. So I'd say just ride it out, keep chatting like usual but also let things progress slowly. If she's reciprocating the communication, you're golden.
  
  Don't stress so much next time - we all mess up these situations sometimes. As long as you're honest with her and yourself, it'll work out how it's meant to. Just keep being your cool self. You got this, bro!
  
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