Guys what dating advice would you give your daughter or a female friend?

[Tinana]

[DextroShade]

I would tell her not to screw up her chances of landing a good man by not doing any of the following:

• Getting fat
• Having children out of wedlock
• Engaging in any kind of sex work including OnlyFans, sugaring, or stripping
• Posting slutty pictures of herself on the internet
• Posting pictures of herself in supercars, yachts, or exotic destinations
• Going out to bars or clubs
• Having one-night stands or flings
• Getting tattoos or piercings
• Cutting her hair short or dyeing it unnatural colors
• Letting dudes fly her out
• Getting a BBL or other unnecessary cosmetic surgeries
• Having friends who are men or promiscuous women
• Being woke or feminist
• Putting her career or school ahead of finding and keeping a man
• Being on Tiktok
• Going after dudes who are players or have baby mommas and thinking she can tame them
• Engaging in foodie calls or accepting gifts from simps she isn't interested in

[RealMarek]

Don’t do hook-ups, giving sex before you have trust and commitment is bad strategy if you want trust and commitment, some guys will say anything for sex, not all men are kind, know what you want and look for it when you are getting to know a man, learn what he wants and know yourself well enough to know whether you will provide it for him, if you know a match is bad cut it off early, learn about personality disorders and how to recognize them and run from people who have them, if you want drama in relationships watch reality TV but keep it out of your relationships.

[Tinana]

I love this so much 🥺 because I literally just want comfort and trust before sex like being able to like cuddle with a person without it turning into sex because they love you not to push your boundaries ☹️ I’m yet to see that.

[RealMarek]

I know that this is a difficult time in which to find a mate. The prevalence of hook-ups, porn addiction among men, etc., have caused a lot of problems. I know from experience it can be frustrating to be alone. I also know from hard experience it is worse to be with the wrong person. There are men out there who will be compatible with you, trustworthy, and respectful. It is worth holding out for that sort of man. I wish you the patience and discernment you will need to find a suitable partner and the very best of true love in your future.

[Nikki1989]

Date often and date many because you will probably date many rejects before meeting that special one.

[Kelly6]

don't feel shy

date anyone you want to.

[Kelly6]

@tinana thanks for mho

[Tinana]

You’re welcome

[tzdc21]

Well there's a list for me:
1. Don't engage in hookup culture... ever.
2. Don't go to bars and clubs for a SO.
3. Don't be afraid to make the first move. Many guys love that.
4. Do make sure the guy you're dealing with is serious about you.
5. Do not start an Only Fans. I don't care what your friends say, it's not worth it to become an online stripper.
6. Keep an eye out for the quiet guys in the background. They may be the guys you want to have for the long term.
7. Do not EVER try to baby trap a guy or lie about contraceptives.
8. The grass isn't greener on the other side, it's green where you water it. A relationship, and especially marriage isn't always about sunshine and rainbows and happiness. It's about sharing a life with another person and life isn't always pretty to you. Always try to be WILLING to work through it with the other person, unless they have no desire to try and change it.
9. Don't dress all provocatively. It'll make you look like a slut.
10. Be willing to contribute to a man's life in a relationship. That's how you keep him around.
11. Do not, and I repeat, DO NOT be quarrelsome. Nothing turns a man off more than a woman who will always nag and argue with him.
12. I don't care what other girls say, the bad boy is absolutely NOT the answer. I don't care how sexy he is, if he seems like trouble, THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN and walk the other way.

That's about all I can think of off the top of my head.

[Andres77]

this is good stuff.

[Tinana]

I agree with you I love kind people 🥺 that have your best interest

[Anonymous]

While we can give our perspective, I don’t think people of the opposite sex can usually give advice that’s actually helpful because we’ll never fully understand what the other side wants.

Women also don’t seem to follow good advice. While men are sex driven, and we think with our dicks a lot, women are equally emotionally driven. They’ll go against everything they’ve been told, against everything they know is right, do things they know they shouldn’t, just because they feel a certain way about a guy. Especially young women.

For example one of the guys said “bad boys are not the answer, if he seems like trouble think with your brain”. Every woman who ended up with a “bad boy” knew he was trouble from the beginning but went with him anyway.

I just wouldn’t advise them on most things.

[mohannad5]

Do not rush to judge a person, and do not give him everything. She must build the relationship from the beginning on commitment, respect, exchange, and trust, and not just on sex and love of sex. If a man asks for sex a lot, this means that he wants to have sex with her and leave.

[Andres77]

set a standard and don't deviate from ur standard. give ur dad his full name and birthdate and license plate number and see what he finds. than make him ask ur dad for permission to date you. then if ur dad challenges him to a boxing match or a swordfight, if he doesn't accept then he was a little turd and u should move on.

i'm fighting that kid this month. boxing and swords (training with protection).

[aceleon]

simple

don't date with a man prefer woman instead if you so desire whether you are straight or not is irrevelant so does spaghetti until it gets wet.

[ProbablyClueless]

Believe actions, not words. Communicate clearly WITH THEM (don't consult your girlfriends about how to interpret something a guy does because they don't know what they're talking about). When someone tells you who they are; believe them.

[Anonymous]

Know your worth and demand respect always. You do those two things and you CANNOT fail.

a lot of women fail. But it's because they don't do one or both.

[Twalli]

The guy wants to see you naked. It doesn't matter how confident you are in your body. He wants to see it. Also almost 0 guys who want to date you will dislike seeing you naked.

[exitseven]

Guys are all scum and only interested in one thing.

[Staximus]

Don't let yourself fall for somebody until you know they care as much about you as you do about them

[shortster]

Date to marry. Boring is happiness. Shared values are more important than shared hobbies.

[RavVid]

Hold off on giving sex too soon.

[sheikalana]

Make them wait. Do not rush.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Get to know a guy first and don't move too fast.

[Guido]

All guys want is sex. Keep your legs closed.

[Cute_potato01]

Don't do drugs

[Kelly6]

thats best one

[Cute_potato01]

@Kelly6 😭😭 aww ty hun

[tzdc21]

I'd say that's a good piece of advice on general as opposed to just dating.

[driven159]

be careful