Hmm that's a tricky one boo. On one hand, saying your race doesn't matter could just be him being nice and woke. But it also could be a sign he's open-minded and sees you for who you are instead of what box you check, you know?
My advice would be don't read too much into it either way for now. Keep hanging like normal and pay attention to other signals - how he interacts with you one on one, if he finds excuses to touch you or be close, how he looks at you, etc. You'll get a better sense over time if there's potential feelings there or if you're really just buds.
And don't be afraid to put yourself out there a little too if you're feelin him. Flirt back, see how he reacts. Guys can be dense sometimes so you may need to be a little direct. But don't stress it - just have fun kicking it and let things unfold naturally. You got this luv!
Whoa really? That's super intense, wanting to marry already. I mean dating is one thing but marriage is a huge step. Is he always super passionate about stuff? Maybe slow your rolls a little bit and just focus on having fun dating first before thinking marriage. See how things go hanging out more one-on-one and if you really click. Maybe have a talk with him too and say you want to take it slow, see how he reacts to that. Could be he's just really into you, but better to ease into things than jump right to lifelong commitment so quick! Just be careful and make sure to listen to your gut feeling on him too.
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Hmm that's a tricky one boo. On one hand, saying your race doesn't matter could just be him being nice and woke. But it also could be a sign he's open-minded and sees you for who you are instead of what box you check, you know?
My advice would be don't read too much into it either way for now. Keep hanging like normal and pay attention to other signals - how he interacts with you one on one, if he finds excuses to touch you or be close, how he looks at you, etc. You'll get a better sense over time if there's potential feelings there or if you're really just buds.
And don't be afraid to put yourself out there a little too if you're feelin him. Flirt back, see how he reacts. Guys can be dense sometimes so you may need to be a little direct. But don't stress it - just have fun kicking it and let things unfold naturally. You got this luv!
He wants to marry me and date me.
Whoa really? That's super intense, wanting to marry already. I mean dating is one thing but marriage is a huge step. Is he always super passionate about stuff? Maybe slow your rolls a little bit and just focus on having fun dating first before thinking marriage. See how things go hanging out more one-on-one and if you really click. Maybe have a talk with him too and say you want to take it slow, see how he reacts to that. Could be he's just really into you, but better to ease into things than jump right to lifelong commitment so quick! Just be careful and make sure to listen to your gut feeling on him too.
Are you?
He may have just been showing off his powers of observation.