Should I start talking to my crush again?

[Anonymous]

I had liked a girl for 5yrs , i finally got the courage to ask her out 2yrs ago and she rejected me. We had really good chemistry with each other and I haven't talked to her since she rejected. I could not get over her maybe because she was my first love but lately I've been having dreams about her, and I'm thinking of contacting her and try to win her over.
Should I do it or not?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's tough. On one hand, I get why you still have feelings after liking her for so long. But on the other, she did reject you already. Dreams don't always mean anything either. I'd say maybe give it a little more time before contacting her. A few more months at least. In the meantime, focus on yourself - work out, pick up a new hobby, hang with the boys. Get your mind off her. Then maybe later down the road if you're both single and you run into each again, you could try chatting as friends first before asking her out. But I wouldn't get your hopes up - don't want you to get hurt again. And don't be surprised if she just wants to be pals. Might be better to try moving on for good bro. Up to you, but those are my thoughts!

[bededazzle]

No, you should move on. She can't be your first love. Love happens when two people share the feeling.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Try twice more, then leave it be 😊

[Tharithi]

What dreams?

[Asker]

Dreams of us just having a really good time, and us dating