Talked to my crush for the first time, how do I keep talking him/what do I do now?

[Anonymous]

I talked to my crush for the first time today and I think we had a lot of fun. He’s really funny and cute but I wouldn’t consider us to be quite friends yet. Do I just say hi to him when I see him in the hallways and stuff, like what do I do now so it’s not just like a 1 good conversation type thing? What’s the next step?

[Summeroflove]

Express your feelings. See if he will go out. Hopefully he says yes. Be direct.


Worst that can happen is you get rejected. You have closure and can move on and won’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t reciprocate feelings. At least you made a good friend.


Wish you the best!

[Stevefiveo]

If you have a class together. You can ask for help with homework. (Even if you don't really need help). Invite him over, maybe when you parents aren't home. Dress sexy, get touchy feely, hopefully there will be a kiss. It might take a few tries for him to get the hint. I know I was guilty of never getting the hint when a girl would flirt with me in school.

[curiousaboutthis]

OH MY GOSH, I HAVE THE SAME EXACT PROBLEM!!! Sorry that I can't help you, but if YOU have any advice for ME I would really appreciate it, I haven't even taken the FIRST step, lol. SORRY!!!

[rienna888]

Just keep saying hi to him and see where it goes from there

[Bethany22]

Yes, just smile and say hi each time, look encouraging, but wait for him to initiate the next conversation. Remember, since you're the one with the crush, you're the one who has to worry about looking too desperate. Just play it cool.

[Guy13]

Did you initiate or him?

[Asker]

We were doing an after school thing. Kinda me I guess, I spoke to him first but we both kinda kept starting little conversations or saying different things to eachother the whole time.

[Guy13]

If it would me, I would share space, emit a calm energy, and see if he will lead. He has to do that to ask you out anyway. It might ultimately be a confidence issue?

[humanearth]

Just keep up what your doing. Let him notice that you like him. Just don't beat around the bush too much. Men like direct and clear answers and questions.

Ask him to go out to lunch or something small.

[TakingitEasy15243]

Keep it casual, subtly look his way as if on accident. Smile and say hi! How are you doing? It'll lead to conversation and those speaking barriers between y'all will slowly start fading away

[Woodchuck411]

You keep talking and get to know him a little bit more. Every time you talk try to find out a little bit more about things you have in common

[Wubs3000]

Talk to him again and again over and over. Just start a conversation. Relate it to something you might both be doing

[Pudsmucker]

Find out where he has lunch and have lunch with him. Say hi to him when you go by him and give him a big smile. Do not be afraid to ask him out when you feel more comfortable.

[Part2603]

Keep talking. Blurt out random thoughts. Don't hold back.

[arther]

Be positive and smile when you see him. Ask him how is he doing then ask for a help in your H. W. or such a thing and buy him a coffee or a drink after he helps you and tell him thanks for everything.

[JPresidente]

Give him a playful shove the next time you see him. Guys like that.

[Twalli]

Just keep it up with him. Say hi when you see him so he remembers who you are. If you have the chance, talk again.

[Majjidkhan]

Just be yourself and i asuming he is a boy so flirt a little talk about sex stuff i know a lot of boys are into sex

[diana_james]

Let him reciprocate.