What are the tell-tale signs a guy is looking for a fling?

[Anonymous]

Signs that he doesn't want a relationship or anything serious with you.

[Chandelier8]

Always be cautious about love-bombing from the start. If he seems very busy and preoccupied, that's troubling as he is likely talking to other women.

The best way to test it is to avoiding having sex with him but show romantic attention. If he isn't okay with it. Chuck him.

[boggboss]

That he is focused on sex or willing to have sex before any understanding of somthing long term

[Chandelier8]

He also wouldn't talk about the future with her, right? Like if she said, we should go somewhere in the spring, he'd tune out?

[boggboss]

Kind of but also all it takes is for a guy to be a decent lier and he can past tests like that

[Chandelier8]

Damn, guys can be sneaky. Why do they lie, what's the point? Just to have sex? Why not buy a hooker instead?

[boggboss]

Thats like asking why wpuld someone steal somthing they can buy if a guy that only wants sex knows he can word play his way to get it he will why pay for somthing he can get for free by hurting someone he will just ghost anyway

[Chandelier8]

Stealing would be more like like rape, I think, but I get your point. So just a bad person, with psychopathic lack of empathy. They pay for that in bad karma.

[boggboss]

Pretty much a person who is not bothered by stepping over others to get what they want

[Chandelier8]

That's no way to live. Their ego gets in the way of being a good human. Thanks for explaining.

[boggboss]

👍🏽 true but many don't care about being good

[Chandelier8]

They should because when their balls are down to their knees no one will want them and they'll just be left with a bad character and saggy balls.

[boggboss]

See thats the thing tho guys like that tend to be highly charismatic in a perfect world sure shitty people will be left alone but realisticly if they are the type of guys that can trick women into having sex with them they are the type of guys that can trick people into liking or thinking they are good people

[Chandelier8]

Stupid women I guess, that's all they get in life.