What are the signs of a guy looking for a relationship or just a fling?

[charming-emo]

[adriano]

Looking for a Relationship:

Consistency: He's consistent in his efforts to communicate with you. It's not just late-night texts but throughout the day, showing he's thinking about you and genuinely interested in your life.
Plans for the Future: He makes plans for the future that include you, and I'm not talking about just plans for next weekend. If he's discussing events or things happening months down the line and wants you there, it's a good sign he's in it for the long haul.
Meet the Crew: If he's eager to introduce you to his friends and family, it's a sign he sees you playing a significant role in his life.
Genuine Interest: He wants to know about you. Your likes, dislikes, what makes you tick. He's attentive and remembers the little details you share about yourself.
Supportive: He's there for you, not just in the good times but also when things get rocky. Whether it's a bad day at work or personal issues, he's a shoulder to lean on.

Looking Just for a Fling:

Hot and Cold: Communication can be sporadic. You might get bombarded with messages for a while and then silence. It's like he's only around when it suits him.
Late-Night Meetups: If most of your interactions are late at night or very last minute, it's a red flag. It suggests you're more of an afterthought or a convenience.
Avoids Deep Conversations: He steers clear of any deep or meaningful conversations about feelings, the future, or anything that suggests a commitment.
Doesn't Introduce You to Friends/Family: If you're kept away from his personal life, it's not a great sign. It might mean he's not looking to integrate you into his life.
All Physical: While physical attraction is important, if that's the main focus of your interactions, it might indicate he's not looking for something long-term.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Date a guy you have been friends with for a few years, if he wants a relationship before then, he either isn't serious, or he is gullible and relies way too much on trust and is likely to pick a woman before he knows if he actually likes her (is compatible with her).

[TheSpaceGnome]

FYI most people are very gullible, watch out for that.

[gayesblog]

A guy looking for a relationship shows interest in your life, makes plans for the future, and invests time in emotional connection.

Conversely, someone seeking a fling may avoid deep conversations, prioritize physical intimacy, and show little interest in commitments or meeting significant people in your life, indicating a preference for casual encounters....

[KrakenAttackin]

@gayesblog. It's too bad women are merciless to men like this.

[Ms_Facesitter]

When you don't give him sex at all while dating and he isn't pushing towards sex or hinting at it at all.

[JHAYES317]

If a girl doesn’t at least make out with me by the third date I’d assume she was just leading me on frankly

[Ms_Facesitter]

I move way too slow :(

[JHAYES317]

Why?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Slow is good, fast results in bad choices.

[BonzoInBitburg]

He's going to ask questions about you to see how you fit into his life. He's also going to take his time getting to know you.

[BarryLiverstone]

If he’s looking for a fling then he’s not going to be making long term plans

[Yannae]

My sign is not sleeping together until Way later.

[Anonymous]

Most guys are always on the lookout for both