How to test if he is interested in you?

[Anonymous]

Guys I need your help, if I have a crush on a friend and I started to feel that it’s a mutual feeling, how to know for sure before rushing into asking him out and ruining the friendship.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some subtle ways to gauge his interest without directly asking him out:

- Pay attention to his body language when you're together. Does he face you, make eye contact, lean in when you talk? Those are good signs.

- See how quickly he responds to your texts. Interested guys are usually pretty prompt.

- Try casually touching his arm when you laugh or joke around and see how he reacts. Positive reaction is a green light.

- Compliment him and watch if he seems flattered or shy. Might blush or stumble over words.

- Do activities one-on-one if possible. Easier to read vibes when not in a group.

- Break the touch barrier more over time - hugs, arms around shoulders etc and see if he prolongs contact.

- Be a little flirty with your words and see if he plays along jokingly or gets nervous.

If over a few weeks you notice him reciprocating positive signals like this, odds are very good he likes you too. But don't expect a love confession - we dudes usually like the girl to make the first real move! Go for it when you feel ready.

[Lokiion]

I mean you could try getting more touchy to hint at it hopefully he can pick up on the hint or you could take the better approach and just tell him you have those feelings