Is it bad for a 30 year old woman to be going on a date with 18 year old boys?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't’ say bad,, but definitely a little weird for a girl to be chasing much younger guys, but if you like being a cougar, then do you. Just be careful because most younger guys’ are only thinking about one thing , sex , they think with their dicks more than their hearts. So if you just want sex then you will more than likely be ok with that , but if you are seeking love , you might have struggles with that , sorry to say I was 18 already , and most the shit that came out of my mouth was pretty much bullshit lies , because I haven’t really experienced a real relationship yet , When I was 18 , my mission was just to get laid , Chasing after attractive girls and attractive older girls’ , Attractive older girls’ was a challenge to me , that honestly turned me on , if I was able to sweep her off of her feet and Get her into bed , if I did , I felt like I was the man , by screwing her brains out , it boosted my ego, knowing, I was able to get her to fall for me and it was hot knowing I had an older girl wanting me. My friends would applaud me as well , so it was definitely an ego boost for sure but once those older girls’ realized all I wanted with them was sex , they moved on. Most females in general are very vulnerable to a guy that is good with his words , that isn’t shy , that has confidence , and knows how to make her laugh and smile My personality has gotten me laid a bunch of times and sadly at that young age , I was very immature and selfish , because I never really experienced a real relationship, I thought I knew what a relationship was and always treated girls’ the same way I wanted to be treated in return , but not realizing I was selfish , and only wanted what was best for myself. At that time , It wasn’t until I got older until I realized what it truly means to be in a relationship with someone , after having my heart shit on and burned a handful of times , I realized and asked myself , what am I doing wrong? , I don’t really hold age as a deciding factor when it comes to meeting a beautiful girl that has a lot of chemistry and connection with me , her age doesn’t determine that for me , unless she is under legal age of consent , that’s where I draw the line , but other than that I have dated older and younger girls , some of the younger girls’ were more mature than some of the older ones , so again that’s why I don’t really hold age as a deciding factor , But one thing I know for
Sure is how I was , when I was that age and know what I was thinking , when I was that age , So I am just giving you some advice to look out for , just so you don’t get your heart broken. Look at all these female teachers having affairs with their students , It’s mainly because that student is good with his words and making her feel special but the true reality of it all is he just wants to stick his dick into her and to show off in front of his friends that he got Mrs. So and so into bed , he doesn’t care that she was married with kids already , he just wanted to nail her. Sadly a lot of girls’ are vulnerable to listening to a guys’ flirtatious words There is a difference with words coming from the heart and words coming from his dick , An 18 year old boy. Most of his words are coming from his dick

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

They're all consenting adults, so if all parties are comfortable with that, who are we to judge.

I had some hookups with women in their mid- late 30s when I was that age and no one had a problem with it.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Serious relationship will not last long with them.

So if you are looking for an equal partner, he is too young for that.

There was an 18 yo who wanted to date me when I was 25

“No, son, you don’t want me to date you.”

I felt like a mama who had to take care of him, as he was so clueless. I’d rather us be equal.

Now if sex was the only thing I was looking forward I’d lower the age group till 19. But sex is not the only thing I am looking forward, I need some type of maturity, so I’d rather stick with people 25 and older.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

It is a bit weird and kind of borderline with one party being 18. At 30 you’re pretty established (or should be) and at 18 you’re barely graduated from school, may or may not still live with your parents, and you’re not even old enough to go to a bar. Not a fan when guys do it and not a fan with women either, however at the end of the day both are consenting adults. Just question the intent behind it. Personally would think of it as less odd if the younger party was at least 20-21 with someone around 30

ManOnFire · Answer

You keep asking us the same question but with different ages and using different accounts. You need to let it go.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Did this happen on planet of the apes or Jupiter?

wolfcat87 · Answer

I'll say the same thing I'll say about men. If it's a young fetish, then it's really gross. If they actually hit it off and have a ton in common, and (s) he's making her life and future better in every way, then why not? As long as it's real relationship looking out for the more vulnerable party who is really young and unable to fend for their self.

You can usually talk to these people for a few minutes and find out what type they are. Do they often target young people? Or, do they date people of every age? Do they say bad things about people their age and older to justify only going after young people? Do they go on and on about how young is better? Etc.

nonyabeez-wax · Answer

No, if you can pull a young guy, do it.

Over 18, age is just a number.

Under 18, jail is just a place.

And wood chippers are just things.

Legit, if both of you are legal adults, and are into each other, go for it.

Good luck.

BrownSugar00 · Answer

If men think it's ok to date someone who's 18, 19 and 20 years old when they're 25+ years of age, then why can't women do so?

I mean, the hypocrisy is real. Many people don't find is odd, strange or it as a red flag when a man who's 7+ years older than a woman who's just started out in adulthood, starts dating and even marrying such a youthful girl, then why not? I'm just pointing out how things are in this world.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

The whole age argument is retarded seeing that just a few hundred years ago, none of you would bat an eye at my 40-something-year-old ass banging a 13-year-old and making babies with her.  Too bad most of these chicks won't be bangable when they're a few years older.

molonski2 · Answer

Ummmm YES , frankly its a little sick , Very sick..

All the women , I've seen do this , were either insecure , or wanted a child.

Having said that , when I was 18 , just moved out of home I was seduced by my 27 year old neighbour , now for me it was great , for a while , she did everything for me , washing , cooking , sexual , it was Christmas everyday.

devilish-cutie · Answer

It has many issues since age does play a part in maturity, life situation, life experience and so on, but it doesn't mean it cannot work as people with big age gaps can make it work, yet its more likely to work if someone is 25 and the other is like 37 since maturity levels at 25 are good compared to 18.

hahahmm · Answer

Yes, if you are interested in serious, long term or marriage then everything you're doing is counter productive. The more partners a woman has the harder it is for her to actually bond with the guy she eventually wants 'forever' with. The amount of time you have left to find a good partner is getting shorter by the day.

AutumnSerenity · Answer

In my opinion, yes. That age gap is simply creepy. What could a 30 year old possibly have in common with an 18 year old? Yes, 18 is “legal age” according to the law in some places but it’s still a kid.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Well I’m 25 and my fiance is 18. I’m not 30 yet but I’m halfway to 30 basically but we’re in love and don’t care if people judge us.. they actually don’t even notice the age gap because I look 20-22.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

An older woman is allowed to date a younger man of legal age meaning 18. It's entirely their choice to date one another as it's not hurting anyone.

We can all have our own opinion however let's not forget that men have been dating much younger of legal age for many years.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

She is not just cougar. She is a whole different type of predator. She should be ashamed of herself.🤮🤮🤮

loveslongnails · Answer

Hmm, is it bad? That depends on your motives. As long as you're both openly honest about what you want or expect, whatever that is, knock yourselves out. You're both adults, you have to deal with the consequences.

DermalPunch · Answer

They could really like you but they are usually so immature that they act disrespectfully out of utter cluessness and inexperience. Not very satisfying and you will usually grow frustrated rather quickly.

nastyb · Answer

a 30 yr old would have nothing in common with an 18 yr old unless she is either really immature or has a "young fetish". Same goes for men. Perverts would use any reason on earth to justify their "young fetish " desires.

sheikalana · Answer

Technically you're an adult at 18 but what exactly do you expect from an 18 year old? I feel that the age gap is too great and you're both in completely different phases of your life. The chances of the relationship to work are quiet low.

rosemilk · Answer

what the hell... yes. although it is legal, i think it's pretty messed up... what do you have in common with an 18 year old? kinda creepy, i just have to be honest.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yea she's grooming them and giving pedo vibes

joehypo1 · Answer

If the dude was cool with it its not illegal i dated a chic that was 10 years older

Friendlybro79 · Answer

It's no one's business because they're both adults. It's legal so who cares. You're certainly allowed to think whatever you want but it doesn't matter either way what any of us think two adults should or should not be doing.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Well it looks bad. You should at least stick to guys in their early 20's, If they are teens what would you even see in them? lol

Fireguy17 · Answer

it is no different than the 30 year old guys that want to date 18 year old females. I'm not sure of what age it goes from girls to women, so I used females.

Levin · Answer

You're entitled to some fun. I don't get the moralising unless your behaviour is reckless and persistently so.

BrightBubblyKat · Answer

I find it a bit strange, since you asked. What would they have in common? That said, you do you.

Miristheiss · Answer

Bad? It isn't bad.  I mean, it isn't going to go anywhere long term. As long as both realize that right from the outset.

Paris13 · Answer

Well, He is Only 18 and Pretty Young Yet with Life, But No Strife. He is Of Age. xxoo

RageBabe · Answer

I dunno, I think he's just barely legal. I wouldn't, personally.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

It's legal to but I think they'd be better off with someone their own age.

Whoswhohere · Answer

It's not suitable but up to you. My parents friends was 43 and dated an 18 year old girl. She eventually got too clingy and he broke up with her.

Starrrboy · Answer

Umm.. Yeah?18 is just out of high school goddammit lol.. unless that's the point and she likes them horny and innocent 🤣..

Anonymous · Answer

As long as she isn't his teacher they are consenting adults... that said it could be indicative of mommy issues on his end and maturity issues on hers

KatherineJ · Answer

I would more wonder what life experiences they had in common.

Booklover_90 · Answer

The real question is why would she  want  someone that young?

Anonymous · Answer

So long as she knows it's not a relationship and follows the camp site rule.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Well the women of gag would say that was grooming if the roles were reversed.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Ew I don't know what an 18 year old guy would have to offer a grown ass woman

msc545 · Answer

No they are both adults. There's nothing wrong with it.

HouseMoat · Answer

It's legal, but, you'd have wonder why she needs to go that low

OddBeMe · Answer

Yes. Teens should only date teens. And even that has issues.

nawtee_me · Answer

No different than me going out with an 18 year old girl huh?

constantine15 · Answer

No, the world would be a better place if more older women got with younger guys 😊

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Not at all. When I was 18. I would have loved to have a 30 year old fuck buddy.

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Its not bad but what do you have in common Its strange

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. It's very unlikely to go well for her.

Riley18 · Answer

Not really it just means that woman is into younger men

blklblub · Answer

Kinda weird and even gross but its legal ig.

4ngelic · Answer

yea its really really weird

WhitneySnow · Answer

It’s a big age gap

exitseven · Answer

I say no. You only live once.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

It's pretty pervy of her, she likes em young ☻

Pterodon · Answer

I don’t think so

jamesgoldman · Answer

Not at all, I'd have been down for that

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s very weird for women to do that

QuietRunner · Answer

no I don't think it is

DreamLife7 · Answer

Duh get someone your own age

In_Trance · Answer

I think you've asked this already p

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Well just for sex I guess

Pohjolan · Answer

Good for her.

vicphilips · Answer

Nope thats cool. No worries

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