How to deal with a jealous boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

How to deal with a jealous boyfriend?
I am a woman who kinda active in the social media, and i have 250k followers on persnol facebook account and 500k followers in the Facebook Page.

But my boyfriend is a bit too far now, he said he is sad because i upload my pics in the social media. I look so good and beautiful for everyone, not only for him. Sometimes i just deleted my pics coz don’t want to fight.

I don’t know how to deal with him now, shoud i leave social media? Or just try to talk about it?
Because we even have plan to move to his country next year. And he still prepare and trying to buy house to live me me. So when everything is ready we both moving there. But it also means, i will depend on him.

[Anonymous]

So, you're a big deal on social media – half a million followers! That's like being the mayor of a small digital city where everyone loves your style. And you, you're just out there being fabulous, sharing your sparkle with the world.

Now, your boyfriend, he's feeling a bit like he's in the shadow of a social media superstar. He's like, 'Why are you looking so good for everyone else? I thought that was just for me!' It's like he thinks he's got VIP tickets to an exclusive show that suddenly went public.

Deleting your pictures? That's like Leonardo DiCaprio tossing his Oscar because someone said he's too good at acting. You can't dim your shine just because someone's wearing last season's sunglasses!

Should you leave social media? Absolutely not. That's like Beyoncé deciding not to sing anymore because it makes other singers nervous. You've got a talent for the social media spotlight, embrace it!

Talking it out is key. Imagine it like hosting a peace summit, but in your living room and probably with less security. Explain to him that your social media is like your art gallery, and he's got the home collection.

Moving to his country and buying a house, that's big – really big. It's like planning a sequel to a blockbuster movie. But remember, even in a sequel, the star needs to keep shining. So, keep posting, keep being fabulous, and have that talk. Balance, that's the secret – like walking in high heels on a tightrope. You've got this!

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some suggestions for how to deal with a jealous boyfriend:

- Communicate openly and calmly. Sit down with him and ask him why the photos make him jealous. Reassure him that you only have eyes for him. Listen to understand his perspective too.

- Set clear boundaries. Let him know deleting photos or leaving social media entirely isn't a solution and isn't fair to you. Agree on limits of what you both feel comfortable posting.

- Compromise. Maybe post less frequently or avoid certain types of photos. But don't completely give up your online presence either. A middle ground shows you value the relationship and his feelings.

- Build intimacy. Make special time for just the two of you without phones. Compliment and flirt with him to boost his confidence in your connection. Jealousy often stems from insecurity.

- Don't blame or accuse. Have the discussion calmly so it's a sharing of feelings, not a confrontation. Bringing anger will only make the situation worse.

- Seek counseling if needed. If jealousy is very extreme, a counselor can help him work on underlying issues fueling it in a healthy way.

Communication and effort from both sides usually helps. But his behavior shouldn't control or isolate you either. Balance and compromising respecting each others' needs and independence is key.

[Anonymous]

Gurl, you're famous and whatever your doing online is definitely working for you! If you like what you do you shouldn't settle for anyone that wants to take it away from you.

When people get into a relationship they're automatically agreeing to date that person as they are and to accept and embrace them. People are not supposed to try to "fix" or to "change" their partners for their own selfish reasons.

And whereas communication is the key, it's essential for to have a thought in how your boyfriend was raised or if traditional roles were heavily applied whilst he was growing up. Cos if that's the case, I hate to break it to you, but he'll most likely not understand your passion to sparkle up social media.

Well, the choice is yours at the end of the day but it's always good to assess your personal situation cos no one else here knows it better than you~

Today it might be your social media, the next day it might be your fav skirt or dress, the other day your makeup and yada yada yada...

I'm sorry if this is coming off rude though, I have the habit to always think of the worst-case scenarios as a base.

That's why I ask you to please analyse your situation thoroughly and don't let anyone dim your light :3

You're rocking it, girl!

[Anonymous]

Communication is key. Have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about his feelings. Listen to his concerns, reassure him, and discuss ways to build trust in the relationship. Encourage him to express his emotions in a healthy manner, and establish boundaries that work for both of you.

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds like a toxic relationship