My boyfriend is too jealous, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Last night 2 groups of my friends ask me to go to the club but I denied and went to sleep around midnight and then he keeps calling but I didn’t get his call cuz I turn off my notifications, I woke up then I got blocked by him, and he looked at my friends instragram story, what should I do? He’s sooo jealous

[Guy13]

I would not tolerate boy behavior of a 15 year old. If you are 20 then modern day 25 boys may have your maturity. Anyone who thinks they own you is not healthy person or ready for relationship

[megabamse]

Let's put it like this. If your boyfriend does exactly the same things as you, what ever that would be you do. I mean how you party, hang with friends, who you hang with, how you are on social media And how you show yourself in public and in social media, how you talk to people and so on. He would do the exact same things but genders being different. Would you have let him do all that with no issue to it?

[Asker]

But I didn’t go to the club?

[megabamse]

I have no idea what you do, I'm talking general terms. Just put him in your shoes and he does everything you do to the dot, but as his gender and the ones you interact with is also in the same gender opposite. If you post "sexy" pictures on your IG or what not then he will do the same. If lots of man comments you on your Pics, then lots of woman comments on his. And so on. Getting the drift of what I'm saying?

[Anonymous]

what should you do? stay away from people like that. yuck. never communicate with him again.

[Levin]

Probably not be your boyfriend?

You have to set boundaries for acceptable behaviour and *keep* these boundaries no matter what. Give an inch and that.

Life is too short to deal with man-children. and I've seen them around female friends. And the women end up in disastrous relationships with weak and pathetic men for 5 years, because they didn't have some self-respect.

[AimeeKyle]

Have a heart to heart chat with him…. if he doesn’t trust you, then you should move on. On the flip side, have you given him any reason to mistrust you (cheating, etc)? If not, than I stick to my first sentence. If yes, and you want to make it work, you’ll have to work to regain trust (sometimes it can’t be fixed though).

[nawtee_me]

Jealousy comes from a lack of trust. He doesn't trust you and relationship are based on trust. So, you really do not have a good relationship to begin with, do you? Unless you have given him reasons not to trust you in the past, I would leave him and find someone who will trust you to do what you should do.

[Gibbons44]

Boyfriend, as in, just friend, or a lover (casual or exclusive)?
It is very strange how girls always want to communicate yet hardly any can define what they want or have a serious genuinely honest conversation about it.

[motownplayer2000]

Dump his ass. Super toxic which can turn into something worse. It’s a blatant red flag. Saying that so you won’t end up beat up somewhere

[Bklynbadboy12]

You need to sit him down and talk to him. Tell him how you fell. How long have you been with him

[20yearsolder]

Find a better boyfriend

[Alex8736]

he's way to possessive and controlling

[Xtendable]

That sounds suffocating

[weysally]

leave him

[SnowedIn]

Dump him.

[QuietRunner]

dump him

find a more trusting guy

[Guardian45]

Dump his ass.

[Amur8711]

End things with him

[riverrat3]

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