Is my boyfriend jealous or what?

[Anonymous]

We work together and I study different thing

I have online classes and worked half Friday to go to his house to study

Once he got angry and starteda saying "you are using me for study"... uhm.. it was mutual agreement that ill study at his house at even more, it was HIS idea because i live faraway while he lives infront of our office

Then he goes:"you leave again? ok then... i dont get why you have this behaviour, wtf you think you are."

Umm... what in the fuck

What is his problem... suddenly he doesn't like me studying

[serious]

I don't know if jealousy is the right term to use here. However, it is possible that he likes you more than just an acquaintance or a work colleague.

[Asker]

Why do you think so? what is acquaintance means
Why he acts this way

[serious]

Well it is simple, the fact that he gets irritated and annoyed that you don't spend time with him other than just coming to study at his home. The thing is he wants you to spend more time with him, he also wants the same but he cannot say that hence this is building up this frustration inside him which in turn is causing him to speak like this.

[serious]

Acquaintance means it is someone you know, someone who is in contact with you on a regular basis. However, this is very limited and is not like friendship where one can talk and discuss about anything.

[Asker]

He doesn't want to spend time with me
He spends all the evenings, EVERYDAY AFTER WORK, drinking with his friends
If there is any convo about any plans about spend time together or have a dinner together it comes from me, not him
Since he cancelled me SO MANY TIMES i dont want to ask for a date anymore

[serious]

I understand

[slatyb]

That's weird. Maybe he's worried you are going to outgrow him? Ask him what it's about. This feels intolerable to me.

[Asker]

No idea
Feels like he is not happy for me
Once he was so fucking paranoid he said to stay away from his house and that i can't be in his house when he is not there

[Asker]

We work in interior design company and i study fisiotherapy... nothing to do with my actual job

[Guy13]

You study and leave ⁉️ Like use him ⁉️

[Asker]

What

[Asker]

After studying i waited for him amd we generally had a dinner and spent a night togetber each Friday