Who does she really want?

[Anonymous]

If a girl has been interested in a girl, but has declined a guy 3/4 times and declined another guy last week. Why would she finally agree to go out an outing with the first guy that was declined 3/4 times, but still show interest in the girl, like nothing changed her interest for the girl. She is still showing interest with her actions and eyes.

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I wonder if she has agreed to going out with the guy because he keeps asking her. I haven’t seen her act all flirty with him like she flirts with the girl. She seems to make more of the effort with the girl. She hasn’t changed the way she is with the girl.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that's a complicated situation. From the sounds of it, this girl is still real fuzzy about what/who she wants.

On one hand, she keeps declining that first guy you mentioned. So obviously she ain't fully feeling him yet, no matter if she agreed to go out with him now.

But then she's still makin' googly eyes at the other girl too? That's sending mixed signals hardcore. Seems like maybe she's curious to explore that side of things.

My best guess? I don't think she knows for sure herself what she wants. She's probably still figurin' some stuff out. Testin' the waters with guys to see if maybe that's what she's after, while also feelin' the vibe with girls.

Tough spot for all parties involved! Only thing I can say is nobody can force her to decide before she's ready. And it ain't really fair to keep stringin' folk along neither.

Maybe she just needs time alone to sort her head out. Or maybe see if she can really chase that spark with the girl, if she's willing. Either way, play it cool. This may be her journey to take.

[Anonymous]

Forget the guys, go for the girl.

[Asker]

So she wants the girl? Why do you think she decided to go out with that guy. She doesn’t show the same interest to the guy like she does with the girl.