What she wants?

[hassan9873]

Okay, so she is in my office since one month, and she is a social butterfly. Literally. Talking to everyone from anyone, making and enjoying every any and every kinda jokes, including double meaning SEXUAL Jokes and she's just too responsive to everyone, even if she doesn't like that person so much.. she listens to them and makes jokes and enjoys.. but she never entertains physical touch from anyone and any kinda physical jokes, literally..

BUT BUT BUT.. she touches me, and makes excuses to make me touch her.. and no matter what she's doing, if i call her to come to me, she comes within seconds. Lol.. when i ask her to come on a date with me she plays hard to get, or just make excuses that she can't go..

WHAT SHE WANTS?

[Bethany22]

She likes you but she's afraid of commitment when it starts to become real.

[hassan9873]

Do you think that just wants a fling or something?

[Summeroflove]

That seems to be the case. It’s probably best to just move on

[hassan9873]

@Summeroflove iam a hopeless romantic. I know I'll fall for her, because she can fake affection.. but i still want to know how it feels.. even if it's just for sometime. Do you think it'll affect my mind nagetivly if i keep moving forward with her? She will not say no if i try to do something physical i know that.. what's your opinion?

[Summeroflove]

I get it. But you need to just leave her alone and tell her to stop when she’s making you uncomfortable.

[Bethany22]

And I bet that she'll soon start touching other guys as soon as she feels that you're starting to enjoy the special attention

[hassan9873]

@Summeroflove tbh she isn't making me uncomfortable... And she isn't the only one. I do get a lot of female attention. But she seems intoxicating.. like I don't want her but I can't stop thinking about the fact that she is faking all that attention and I don't know what to call it, but i feel like i want that. I don't know why. And honestly I'm not that kinda guy who has a lot of girlfriend either...

[hassan9873]

Yeahhhh, that is the problem that i am also aware of. I know that when there no fire left between us, she'll left or whatever. The problem is, I want that.. but I'm afraid that I'll definitely catch feelings for her.. but i feel like staying away from her is harder.. should i really just Stop her, and stay away..

[Summeroflove]

Well. If you made advances and she isn’t accepting tjem. Then move on

[Summeroflove]

If you get a lot of female attention. Then there are women who won’t waste your time “playing hard to get”.

[hassan9873]

@Summeroflove thats right.. it helps a lot.. i also think that she won't be good for my mental health.

[Summeroflove]

Probably not people like that aren’t worth your time. There is other women who won’t waste your time playing games and will have a sense of boundaries.

Even if she isn’t making you uncomfortable it’s a red flag if someone doesn’t have boundaries

[hassan9873]

@Summeroflove yup. Thats right.. thanks a lot.

[Summeroflove]

Your welcome

[Summeroflove]

She’s weird. Tell her to leave you alone

[hassan9873]

You sure? Should I?

[Summeroflove]

Yeah, I’m sure. You shouldn’t just let someone cross your boundaries.

You’ve asked her on a date and she’s not responding. So it’s better to move on whatever her problem is. It’s not worth it to play games.

[Summeroflove]

Someone “playing hard to get” is either not interested or wasting your time. Like I said, I think you need to find someone else.

[hassan9873]

Yeah.. that seems like a right move.. i should move on..

[Summeroflove]

Yes. I wish you the best

[hassan9873]

Thanks 😊👍🏻

[Summeroflove]

Yw 👍