Whats does she want?

[Anonymous]

Okay known this girl for 2 years from my previous job... Were friends but I like her told her she said no.

Its always been messing with my head.

She confronted me a month ago and we decided to stay friends.

Other day I bumped into her on the street was talking about her bday soon.

She texted me back next day that she doesn't want to do it.

So I told her that all g we're gonna go have food without you.

Next day she's like "okay. Enjoy? You seem offended?"

Why do that if she doesn't wanna meet or do anything. its frustrating.

I feel like telling her this weird texting friendship isn't working for me. She's not upfront but shy's away from communicating. Then just pops her head up like an ex that can't forget me.

[Guy13]

She’s testing you. If you bitch about this little 💩 and can’t make things happen in this…there’s no way this girl will grab ahold of your arm.

[Asker]

Elaborate?

[Guy13]

My point is that you’ve been docking around with this for awhile. It’s been a month and this is your last chance to take command. You are going to have to scare her out of complacency.
Good ole laid back you is not going to work. Either come with a new sharp look and little more confidence but not 🤢 about it OR shock her

[Asker]

As we were talking told her... and she was being bitchy... I was initially being nice then I felt like fuck it... went and told her well the way you behave even though you deny it is a sign of someone attached and I'm don't too crazy.

[Guy13]

You’re right, trouble for you and she’s good either way with a guy ‼️