How can I meet someone when my mum is dismissing everything that happens to me when it comes to blokes?

[Monalisa77]

I swear she doesn't want me to meet anyone. The only thing she's suggesting is joining groups, even tho I've literally joined every single one lol and its the same everytime!! She keeps saying its just protecting me yet ahe is always horrible to me and is making out things didn't happen when they did.

[Insecure2]

I have a problem with my mother, too. On one hand, she always says IT would be great if I met someone nice to go out with. On the other hand, whenever I tell her about some guy doing something nice for me she always says it's a trifle, nothing to bother with. That's why I stopped saying anything and instead tried asking my friends and other people for advice. IT turned out better than talking to my mother.

[Monalisa77]

I dont have any friends and if i ask people who know him it comes across as being obsessed and stalking

[Insecure2]

I see. In that case try asking people from GAG. I'm sure you will get many opinions and there will always be someone WHO can actually help. Don't be afraid to ask his friends either. Just don't do IT directly, try to be subtle.

[Monalisa77]

I've tried that, even his brother to see if he got my message but he unfollowed me.

[Insecure2]

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe, they are trying to show you that the guy is not interested. Have you considered that possibility?

[Monalisa77]

His mate was viewing my story last week. If he wasn't interested he and his brother should block me

[Monalisa77]

And he should come back to cards n not act the same as before, instead of avoiding it it seems like there's more to it

[Monalisa77]

I dont think, by answering the message to say yes he does use whatsapp, would show me, if anything by saying he does have it and has clearly seen my message but choose not to rrply, it would show he's defo not interested. By both completely avoiding the q and the mate viewing means there's something more to it i think, i just won't know what unless i see him at cards

[Kelly6]

totally understand that, one of my friend in college who was from pakisten had same issue,

[Kelly6]

@Monalisa77
Thanks for Mho

[KrakenAttackin]

Do you live with your mother? Don't give her this power over your life.

[Monalisa77]

I have health issues so i can't live on my own

[Monalisa77]

But im pretty sure even if i did move out shed still try to stop me meeting anyone lol

[Samrasheihk]

I am interested

[Anonymous]

But what's really happened? Some guy?

[Monalisa77]

Ye she acted like the guy who stroked my hand, like that didn't even happen lol

But like even when i suggested about my brothers going out to the pub on weds she was Shaking her head.

[Samrasheihk]

How she monalisa77 shaking her head

[Monalisa77]

Telling me im basically not allowed and when i said if a guy asks me out im not allowed to say yes