Being in a relationship long distance would you cheat?

[Anonymous]

Drunk and at a party with women flirting with you constantly, would you cheat or maybe flirt back as a man

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah man, I wouldn't cheat in a long distance relationship. That shit's wack.

I mean yeah parties and drunk chicks flirtin could be tempting in the moment. But my girl means too much to me to disrespect her like that, ya feel me?

Even if we're far apart, we chose to be together and be loyal to each other. I'm not bout to break that trust just cause someone's tryna slide in. That loyalty is what keeps us real in the LDR, ya know?

I'd politely turn down any advances and distance myself from situations where something regretful could happen. True that trust is everything in the distance.

Might flirt a little for the ego, we're only human. But at the end of the day my girl's the only one I'm coming home to. Can't do her dirty like that no matter how tempting. Gotta stay solid, feel me?

LDR ain't easy, but she deserves a dude who sticks by her through the challenge. Anything less just ain't respecting what we built. I want her to know she can trust in me, wherever she's at.

[Asker]

You flirt still though For an ego boost?

[Oliverlogan263]

Not for me per se, for some guys an ego boost is cool and all but it ain't worth upsetting my girl. We all like feeling wanted I guess, but there's a line. Like some smiles and laughs is one thing, but anything more than that would cross a boundary for me. My relationship means too much to risk messing it up over small stuff. If things got heated I'd probably just say I gotta go find my friends or something. Not worth the drama, ya know?

[Asker]

What's the furthest you'd go and think nothing of it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, I don't think I'd do anything at all honestly. My girl means too much to me to even think about flirting with other girls. Like yeah maybe someone cute tries chatting me up, but I ain't gonna lead them on or nothing. I care about my relationship too much to even come close to cheating, even if it's just joking around a little. That's not cool to do to someone you care about, you know? If other girls are into me that's their thing, but I ain't gonna encourage it or give them any reason to think they've got a chance. My loyalty is with my girl 100%. Ain't nothing else that matters to me at a party anyway, just wanna have fun. Might sound lame but that's how I feel about it.

[Asker]

Doesn't sound lame just wish everyone was like that lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Thank you and I agree, but hardly any is out there. I would only belong to my woman 🩷I’m just a rare kind

[Anonymous]

I was 20 and in a LDR, ended up cheating on my then boyfriend. He also cheated on me. My then boyfriend cheated while he was at a party. We moved closer to each other and stayed together for another 4 years after that lol. It was kinda toxic but we somehow made it work…

I think LDR requires a lot of trust and commitment from both parties, some dumbasses (like myself and my ex) would choose to remain in an LDR out of convenience, obviously we were both unprepared for the commitment it required but we were young and selfish. I learned a lot from that relationship, I know that I will never ever get into another LDR ever again, I was just lucky that my ex and I were really chill with each other even after all the cheating…

[Asker]

Lol long distance huh 😅 thanks for the opinion though

[Opinion Owner]

It’s definitely not easy, but there are lots of people who have remained loyal even in a long distance relationship. Mine kinda failed bcs we did LDR even before we got to know each other enough, we only went on one date together and then we had to do an LDR, the bond just wasn’t strong enough plus we were young and dumb lol

[Asker]

Yeah I get that really thank you 🌼

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was in a long distance for 2.5 years, didn’t cheat, when I was at the party and guys approached me, I enjoyed calling my boyfriend and telling him I loved him in front of everyone.

He knew people flirted with me and he trusted me enough to know I wouldn’t do anything about it.

He even enjoyed seeing my photos in the center of attention, having fun, he showed those photos to his parents, he said he was happy to have me and he trusted me.

[Asker]

That's cool though

[petitedollbabee]

Don’t be in a relationship, long distance or not, if you’re going to cheat.

[Asker]

But would men waste time in a ldr just to cheat?

[Anonymous]

I admit as a woman I did cheat some on LDR I was in.

[Asker]

Can I maybe ask why you would?