All the girls I went on dates with thought I ran a huge business?

[red324]

Do you think this was a deal breaker to most these women? They assumed I had a ton of employees worming for me and then when we went out they found out it was a one man man show.

Why not ask that beforehand if it's so important to them? I never got a second date out of any of them, but I did go on enough dates to notice the pattern where the same question was asked. I met these girls online. Guess they're just mostly gold diggers online.

Opinions?

[devilish-cutie]

Well, some may have been golddigers but I wouldn't think all. The thing is maybe you gave them that impression, saying you have a business, and when its just you, they didn't like the fact it felt a bit mislead, thinking you have some major business, as you ysf seem to be aware it may have come across that way. They might find it a bit dishonest if it seemed that way but isn't really true.

Women like idea of things like my man runs a business but when it turns out its just you, it might be underwhelimg, doesn't mean that woman is right away golddiger. Women just like men that are capable and stabile so they feel safe w them, thats attractive to women. Just you doeant sound that impressive.

However id hardly dubt, if a girl liked your looks and personality, that she would reject you just on basis of work, there is always more to it.

[red324]

Yeah you would think I would have figured it out by now though. I remember one time I asked a girl who wasn't interested after a date and she was like I don't feel I should have to explain myself. Okay then... good riddens

[devilish-cutie]

Nobody is perfect, it usually just means its not someone for you

[red324]

I agree, but it's not like they didn't have flaws of their own I was willing to look past

[red324]

I don't think they all waited until the date to find out it was just me. I probably went on 200 dates, only got a second date a handful of times. I think a few wanted to hook up and I missed the indicators looking back. Never got a second date from those either

[devilish-cutie]

rl is different than online, if you vibe you vibe and if not you dont. Its no surprise you had no such luck cause dating isn't really numbers game, you haveto be smart about it and go for people you actually think it could work and you have things in common. Going for 100 women that cleraly aren't for you will end if failure no dubt cause... you know there were clear singns pointing at it. So not quantity but quality.

[jamesgoldman]

Often because they want the jet set life and one man shows like us do 70 hour weeks

[red324]

Oh I don't do that anymore. You're not living if you're working all the time.

[jamesgoldman]

I love what I do, if a hospital stay hasn't stopped me then nothing will, other than dying obviously