So this guy is iranian. w intent to marry. it’s been three months with me and he is expecting me to figure out if I want this or not. what do I do?

[moonlitten]

[Saiesh30]

The information shared is not really complete to come to a conclusion.
As in it's unclear if you've been just texting him or you've been meeting as well?
And if you're like in far off countries or are you located closer to each other?
If he's been adamant about it and marriage is like a major topic in your conversations or just mentioned it?
Based on that, we can come to some sort of clarity. Else it's just about making wild guesses or generalising men.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he's looking for a green card. If that's the case, pass, And keep in mind that his family will take a strong interest in who he marries. If they don't approve, he probably won't.

[HelpfulWoman]

easy, leave.

a dude who respects and cares for you doesn't need the "figure this out" and put a timer on the relationship. WAYYYY too soon.

[moonlitten]

see u would like to see where it goes. but i don’t want a timer on it. and i want him to understand that. but i guess if he doesn’t understand he won’t ever

[HelpfulWoman]

he won't. he's iranian and they're all the same like turkish men too.
if you're not in the same area, he's using you for the visa.

[MaSult]

This! ☝️

[abc3643]

Say "No".
No good will come from that.

[jarkitor20]

That is very fast for marriage
Prob best to tell him you want it slower

[Danny_dan92]

You want it? Go for it.




You don’t want it? Don’t




It’s not rocket science

[OddBeMe]

You should know what you want. If it’s questioned, you don’t want it. You just don’t want him to go.

[trellbrown84]

I would think you should run

[Jmmmfi4]

RUN---

[riverrat3]

How do you feel about him