Guys, Turn on and offs for older men (35-60)?

[PrincessKatieXoXo]

I'm a younger woman and I want to know the turn ons and offs for older men

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

Taste in women can be refined, shift or be reinforced. Exposure to women over time will have one of these effects.

Turn on:
• the ability to cook – whether it is together or something a man can look forward to
• generosity with time – if you have time for him, he will appreciate it
• physical attraction – this never changes
• great communication – compromise, negotiation, initiative, enthusiasm, interest, etc
• good sex – mutually respectful and meaningful sex leaving both of you satisfied

Turn off:
• can't cook – this is synonymous with not being able to care for him and his children
• selfishness with time – time is our most precious resource, denying it says it all
• physical aversion – sagging, excessive wrinkles, weird smells, dry/loose vagina, etc
• poor communication – nagging, arguing, whinging, whining, complaining, crying, etc
• bad sex – boring, meaningless sex leaving one or both of you dissatisfied

There is more but generally speaking: if there is a breakdown in the activities that bond (e. g. sharing food, spending time together, appreciating an attraction to one another, communicating, and engaging in satisfying sex), then that bond will deteriorate. Ultimately, maintaining the bond is a turn on; neglecting it is a turn off.

[ByronWolf]

Turn on:
Great personality that can connect on many levels
High level of intelligence
Pushes the relationship to continue to gorw
Reads books
High level of emotional intelligence
Physically attractive
Great sense of humor
Ability to be loved and to love
Give genuine attention
Can be off her phone and not care
Doesn’t sleep with the phone in bedroom
Loves to continue dating each other
Some tattoos
High libido




Turn off:
Septum piercings
Addicted to social media and phone
Not able to have high level intellectual convos
Doesn’t given partner attention or care
Gets upset at simple dumb irrational things
Other things that are opposite of turn ons

[Avicenna]

Immaturity, bad communication and not being able to deal with problems maturely are big turns off (these plague people of all ages_.

Turn-ons- being fun to be around, great sex, great personality/sense of humor, being appreciated.

[AviatorTom]

We older gentlemen don't change much. We generally like and dislike the same things as younger guys.

[Fireguy17]

turn on,
Great personality, independent, nice eyes and smile, articulate, independent, not a gold digger, and not too young.
Turn offs
Narcissistic, fish lips, fake boobs, fake person, horrible personality, gold digger, way too young, on her phone constantly, late, plays games, not video or board games,

[PrincessKatieXoXo]

I have big lips because I'm black and I like a man who I can financially depend on so I guess I'm a turn off

[Fireguy17]

you would be in the way too young category.

[DJB72]

What turns me on hasn't changed much in 30 years. It's still the smile, the look in the eye, the twinkle, the rope, the blindfold 😉

Seriously, I happen to be on the submissive side, but it's not changed a lot in 30 years. And honestly I doubt I'd keep up with a girl half my age

[slatyb]

We're not thar different from younger men, and in general just as horny and just as capable. We might be a bit slower to become aroused, but that's about the only difference.

[Dr_CEI]

Confident, intelligent, make us feel special

[dudeinohio]

Each guy is different. But I am turned off by a lack of maturity, an incompatible personality and sexual incompatibility.

[Staximus]

Besides the usual stuff- sincerity and not being a flake go a long way with me

[spartan55]

Not much different from from the ones I had when I was your age.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Shot in the dark, but referring to them as old men is probably going to be a turn off lmao. As for turn ons, just take age out of the question... how do you turn on a guy your age?

[zagor]

Turn on, intelligence, kindness and good judgment. Turn off, ditziness, fiscal irresponsibility, golddigging.

[Anonymous]

Cute, petite, someone you can hold and take care of.

[Anonymous]

1. Why?

2. I like how you ask this like all older men are the same.

[PrincessKatieXoXo]

Because I find older men attractive

[OddBeMe]

Younger girls who try to please us for their daddy issues.

Get help.

[Anonymous]

Intelligence and elegance... more then anything

[Anonymous]

Cheaters

Overweight

Being entitled

Whiny

Lazy

[dean53AU]

Girls your age are big turn on

[riverrat3]

Your youth is a good one

[msc545]

Don't talk too much and don't ever whine.