Girl x girl relationship and height do girls care?

[MissBoogus]

In a girl x girl relationship, my first girl relationship.. and we haven’t done much other then light kissing laying down, and basically I went to hug her along with my boyfriend for the first time while standing, .. and I was chest level with them both. I’m considered average height, these two are just very tall people. And in a M & F relationship im used to the guy being a bit taller and i think lots prefer their women to be same height or shorter as them. But for women? I have no idea? I honestly feel like I’ll need a stool to kiss or she’ll need to bend way down, which seems not attractive to me… almost like a hassle … she always comments all the time she loves our bfs tall height , and so I’m worried about what she thinks of my height because we are opposites

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey girl, don't sweat your height in your new relationship! A few things to keep in mind:

- Lesbian/bi women tend to care less about traditional gender roles/norms like the guy being taller. Physical "perfection" matters less.

- Your girlfriend is clearly into you for who you are, not your stats. The things that attracted her - your charm, humor, connection - are way more important to the relationship.

- Logistically, yeah standing kisses might require bending or creativity. But intimacy comes in many forms! Cuddling, couch makeouts, bedtime fun won't even notice a height diff.

- Bring a step stool to your place for goofy laughs if needed. But also try dipping her Archie-style if the mood strikes for extra giggles and romance points!

- Confidence is sexy. Own your funky dynamic - people will recognize your authentic connection, not perceived "flaws."

Try not to project male-gaze standards onto your galpal. She clearly adores you as is. Have fun with your unique fit! Your womanly wiles and heart outweigh any stats. Chin up, girl - you've got this! 💕

[Berethor]

The one who is taller tend to be more dominant and more masculine.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/One_Head_Taller

[MissBoogus]

I’m very timid and shy and like to do what I’m told and she is quite the brat lmao

[Berethor]

What the height of you all? and are you in a polyamorous relationship?

[MissBoogus]

I’m around 5’6” and they are both 6’ + something

[Berethor]

5′4″ is the average for women in the US, there are very tall that's for sure.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Berethor]

I mean so they are very tall that's for sure, they make you look short. :)

[MissBoogus]

And yup it’s poly

[Berethor]

FFM? I think that they like to have one partner that is tall and one who shorter.

[bobalife]

It will be okay :) it feels different with different genders and I’m sure she will be fine with your height.

[Jennz6]

When I’m with a girl same height is good but when I’m with a guy, it’s better for him to be taller than me

[MissBoogus]

Same! Or I don’t have much experience so that’s how I think I’d feel. I’m mostly worried for how she sees me, is my shortness a turn off? Sigh I know I should just ask

[Jennz6]

It’s not really a big deal

[wowop99266]

But a guy can't change his height, you shouldn't judge men based on that either...

[OddBeMe]

I love that. Girl X girl, like 4x4. I think we should cancel the metric system and measure everything by boobs.

Yep that’s a five boober.

[renodnol32]

How tall is she? I don't think girls care much in a girl x girl relationship.

[MissBoogus]

I’m not sure probably just shy of 6foot

[renodnol32]

And you are? Just want to get an idea of the height difference.