Do you care about girls height?

[Anonymous]

Many people say that women height don't matter. I disagree

I do

I don't

[HawkPerception]

I somewhat do. I definitely prefer a girl that's shorter, smaller, and weaker. Most men do. We are dominant by nature and when we think of petite girls, we think of someone we can toss around, and pick up easily in the bedroom; dominate. Just like most girls are submissive and prefer guys that are taller, bigger, stronger, and older than themselves. Because all of those traits relate to dominance.

The truth is, if a girl is extremely feminine, kind, and I have chemistry with them (similar views, interests, way of thinking, goals in life, communication style, physical attraction, sense of humor, sexual compatibility, etc.), then I would definitely date a girl even a foot taller than me. Personality definitely matters more.

[Asker]

I disagree with old part. Most girls like guys around their age. According to most dating app studies too. Average age gap between married couple range from 1 to 3 year in developed countries like Japan, Sweden, Uk.

[HawkPerception]

I dunno. Almost every girl I've met has told me they preferred older and would not date younger and if they did date younger, they would only do so by a year or 2

[Flatmanlewis]

This topic is well worn in my social circle. A solid 50% or more have an age gap of at least 5yrs, younger female/older male. About 40% are within a year or so of the same age. Only a few - definitely the minority - are older female/younger male.

I think in the 20s this seems more important for some reason - and it sure did to me at that point - but once you get into the late 20s to early 30s it seems so unimportant. By that time you’ve met and dated enough people that the age of a person is barely even a factor in the effort to meet someone worthy of the time and effort. Dating sucks and (at least for me) the list of qualities that were important got more substantial but also fewer.

[HawkPerception]

Agreed on every point and I definitely feel you when you say dating sucks (at least for me). It definitely does for me too 😅

[Asker]

By older they mean 2 to 3 year. Obviously most women don't want a younger guy

I said guy their age. I am 24 . My preference 20 to 29. thats my age group

But 34 year old. Would be too old for me

I have seen many women rejecting men for being too old. Including for myself

Maybe women you attract are like that
But average women is not

I have checked dating sites statistics and marriage gap statistics

If women actually had preference for older guys than average gap in developed countries would be like 20 year old lol. Since most men prefer young women according to dating sites statistics

[Asker]

@Flatmanlewis in my social circle. Not a single women is dating a guy who is 5 year older
So?

[Asker]

Most older guy have recedding hair line and erectile dysfunction and having conversation with them is harder. Since we have nothing in common

I don't know why guys think that most women want a guy who is decade older
They have neither looks or personality.

This is just projections. It is like black guy claiming that most white girls prefer black mens. Lol

[HawkPerception]

I feel like you might be living under a rock 😅

[HawkPerception]

Assuming that guys that are older have no looks or personality is absolutely mind-blowing to me 😂

[Asker]

@hawkperception it is true through. Most older people are boring lol I am in my 20s i want someone in their 20s

Actually we young people share nothing in common with them

And so many old guys are bald. Extremely unattractive trait.
Never had sex with a old guy but i have heard about erectile dysfunction. Which would be huge problem

[HawkPerception]

It's fine to have your preferences and I'm not trying to convince you to change them, but talking shit when you've clearly never experienced talking to or being with an older guy is just plain ignorant.

[Lliam]

I do to an extent. I think I was more attracted to average height girls than tall girls.
The tallest girl I ever dated was 5'7". The shortest was 5'1". My wife is 5'5". I'm 6'2".

The average height of American women is supposedly 5'4". So my girlfriends were in the average range. But as far as ideal height, I really liked that 5'1" girl.
I wouldn't have turned down a girl as short as 4'10". I just think short girls are extra cute. And they are fun in bed.

But I wouldn't have turned down girl as tall as 5'9" or so if she was really pretty and nice.

[wiltingrosepetal]

I've been rejected for my height a couple times, though that was from the boys in highschool. Mature men don't care how tall she is

[DarkLegacy]

Mature women don't care how tall a guy is either then

[CrabCakes11]

I don’t really care. Height isn’t a factor for me

[blueonblack22]

Women think men care about height because they themselves obsess about a man’s height.

But the vast majority of men do not think the same way women when it comes to height. Out of 50 reasons to date a woman this is like number 37. Way down on the list. It’s only an issue for the guy of the girl is taller than him. But that doesn’t happen often and even then short guys have come to expect that probability.

[Asker]

Most guys definitely won't date women who is taller than them

[blueonblack22]

Well a 5’ 4’’ guy doesn’t have much weight to push in general when it comes to dating. I think he wouldn’t mind a 5’ 6’’.

I’m 6ft by the way. But I’ve dated girls who are 5’ to 5’ 11’’. Their height didn’t matter to me.

[Asker]

I am 5'6 . How tall a guy need to be
For me to come up to his shoulder
I find that kind of gap very cute

[blueonblack22]

You still think guys think the same way you do when it comes to height. We really don’t.

[JHNS98]

Not having to bend in half to hug her would be nice. Too much of a height difference can feel a bit awkward even when holding hands while walking.

My ex friends with benefits is almost 20 cm (8 inches) shorter than me, and it was almost impossible to find a decently ergonomic way to hold hands.

[Asker]

You can always pick her through

[JHNS98]

Yeah, sure

[Purpleronnie]

100% no but sadly many females seem to care about a guys height or at least those that are smaller in a bizarrely negative way

[daemonBot]

I don't really care much, but I do find shorter (5'2"and under) women to be more attractive. But it was never (back when I was dating) a deal breaker.

[Flatmanlewis]

You and I have the same brainwaves, it would seem. 5’2” is just about perfect.

[FunkyMonkee]

Not really. I'd PREFER someone at least 6' tall but, those are SO HARD to come by!! And, I'm EXTREMELY lucky if I can even get a midget to look at me twice!

[ManInChains]

Not as much as they apparently care about a man's height which is something he can't do anything about without turning a rom-com into a horror movie

[BadApple69]

Sorry I selected the wrong one. I do not care about there height. I love women of all sizes. Equal opportunity lover.

[Serkee]

A woman's height doesn't really matter to me at all. As far as physical attraction is concerned, I care a lot more about the face than the body.

[Anonymous]

What people have you been hanging around with? Of course a woman's height matters, it matters when it comes to finding a mate, guys always go for women shorter than them because they're more attractive, and people might say looks doesn't matter but looks somewhat matters, it's also a fact that women care about men's height as well, and they always go for tall guys, it's just facts.

[NathanDavis]

not really... all the girls I've met, been with... went from 5' all the way up to 6ft

[DarkLegacy]

Yes most men are lying and just being white knights. of course we care, just like we care about her boob and bum size. We care about her shape and everything else as well.

[DarkLegacy]

PS: you have no right to complain if you also care about a guys height

[Meropatrick]

Well taller girls are attractive

they look like victoria secrets angels

[TheUniqueOne96]

As long as she's not way shorter than my 159cm frame, then she's fine.

[Billlewis]

She can be as short as she wants, but tall and gangly doesn't work for me.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Everyone is the same height laying down so no, it doesn't matter to me.

[Unit1]

Nope

[pethouse]

Loll

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind if I was really into a girl, but I prefer one who is under 5'10 (my height) because I wanna hold her to my chin or chest and be protective.

[Caroline91]

There's a trick to that which all tall girls should know about... It's called standing short.

[itsclearlynicholas]

If she's taller than 5"0 foot, I'd not date her lol and aged 18-30. Lol. Ava Max is 30 and sure has a rockin body 👅👁️ for a woman ♀️ her age

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yet remember, Ava Max is an on stage creation, even the imagined push up bra or boob-tape supports, I for one think her stature is quite hot, if only yeah, anyways

[itsclearlynicholas]

She's not actually pale and she has shown that / knows it. You know. Anyways.

[Pohjolan]

Well yes and no. I don't care about height per se but I'm less likely to hit on a gal being 6'2 or taller as there is a higher risk of rejection.

[Bricealan]

I don't care unless she only comes up to my waistline?