Getting friendzoned?

[Anonymous]

I find I get friend zoned a lot and I’m not sure why. What makes a guy put a girl in the friendzone (behaviours, looks etc) and can I get out of it? If so, how?

[brightpapaya]

There could be lots of reasons.

1) He already has a crush on someone else/is seeing someone else (if not already in a relationship to begin with)
2) He's not attracted to you physically/sexually.
3) He doesn't like your personality.
4) He sees you as a friend only for other reasons (could be as simple as you remind him of his sister)

If he's really set on 'friendzoning' you, I think the ball's in his court and there's nothing specific you can do but move on... and then sometimes that's when things take a different turn lol

[CharlotteNoivern]

Its only friendzone because you refused to let go and walk away

[LaterZ]

Honestly, looks does play a big part, because they just may not be attracted to you bht like you as a person to be friends with. The other is if u have dated his friends or he has dated your friends and he to be curtious to his friends/ex, doesn't see u in that way.

[Billlewis]

I guarantee you that it happens two or three times as much among men as it does women. Now, that doesn't make it any less unpleasant, but it is less likely to occur if you've been using a hairbrush for a while, at least that's what I've been told.

[Anonymous]

The friend zone is all in your head. In reality, it has never existed.

[Jamie05rhs]

I friendzone a girl if she is not a virgin.