Being friendzoned, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to this girl for a few months and we've met a couple times. But she lives quite far from me so it's hard for us to see eachother a lot.

This morning I woke up to a text basically saying "I want to be friends with you because I feel like the distance won't work".

I feel like I could make the distance work, maybe move closer to her or something

I said I'm happy to be friends for a while until we can see eachother more often and her response was basically something like "Phew, I thought you were going to hate me for that. I can see us being friends forever 😊❤️"

I don't want to be "friends forever", I can see us getting married in the long term, if you get what I mean?

How do I deal with this situation?

[MCheetah]

Just stop talking to her and move on with your life. She's made her feelings clear; she doesn't want to be with you. There's no point in orbiting around her, hoping things will change. They won't.

That's what I've learned about women over time; they either like you or they don't, and most will give you CLEAR signals they like you, if they actually do like you. The ones who don't, are time-wasters. She's a time-waster. Move on.

[Guy13]

Tough it is better than F-U 🖕 Zone. For real, take it or leave it, Bestie

[Anonymous]

Did you tell her you can move closer to her or live together etc maybe that would help
But oh well if she already send the message she made up her mind. Don’t worry it’s clear she doesn’t care much so don’t waste your time here by the time she realizes why no one e loves me you age probably married to an amazing girl

[boggboss]

She said she wanted friendship and u said yes irrelevant of the point she said she didn't want more with u

[Anonymous]

I'd move on. I would get a new girlfriend. And if later she changed her mind I'd politely tell her "No thank you, I'd like us to remain friends".

[Heolurt]

Accept it and move on, there's no point in simping over a lost cause.

[Anonymous]

Leave and cut all ties.