Originally we both said we had feelings for each other and then somewhere down the line within afew weeks he denied saying he had feelings and said "we were always close friends" and got angry because he was initiating 90% of the time (he was chasing me) but it had always been 50/50.
After he said this I have been really hurt, from being friendzoned and him denying he even had feelings for me even though he did admit it.
Im angry, sad and its hard to stop my passive aggressive behaviour when I talk with him. Above all, he lied about "looks dont matter". I was so angry. I feel like I have been stabbed multiple times. Yet he still wants to continue messaging me everyday, calling me and talking to me for hours. He gets upset when I dont message him or thinks he done something wrong, and then proceeded to question who the other guy I was texting (another guy friend).
I haven't stopped crying and its hard to just "continue being friends". I want to be friends but I want to get rid of my feelings for him for good.
After he said this I have been really hurt, from being friendzoned and him denying he even had feelings for me even though he did admit it.
Im angry, sad and its hard to stop my passive aggressive behaviour when I talk with him. Above all, he lied about "looks dont matter". I was so angry. I feel like I have been stabbed multiple times. Yet he still wants to continue messaging me everyday, calling me and talking to me for hours. He gets upset when I dont message him or thinks he done something wrong, and then proceeded to question who the other guy I was texting (another guy friend).
I haven't stopped crying and its hard to just "continue being friends". I want to be friends but I want to get rid of my feelings for him for good.
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Looks always matter, even if it's just a little bit. I don't think he was trying to be deceptive when he said that, but it was a mistake for him to make that statement. What you guys should have done was just exchange photos early on to get it out of the way. "Rip off the Band-aid," as they say.
We did exchange photos and I already knew he wouldn't like my appearance. But it is still hurtful regardless he disregarded his advances. Im probably going to ask him for some space.. I am emotionally tired
What do you mean that you already knew?
He seemed like the kind of guy with high standards to begin with. I do not think I am overly pretty but I dont think I break the mirror either. He started being affectionate and complimenting me again for some reason?
Okay, so then you didn't know. (Sigh). I don't understand why girls always assume that a guy doesn't like them when they don't even ask! 🤷 🤦
Nope. You deserve better. I would cut things off. Doesn’t sound like he’s even worth being friends with. Wouldn’t even try to be friends.
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