Should I continue talking to this guy?

[Anonymous]

I am talking to a guy who’s still legally married but separated from his wife who moved across the country. They are going through the steps of getting a divorce. We are becoming close and getting to know/understand each other each day. He’s very open with me, nice & a really sweet guy. He takes me on dates and does really nice things for me but he expressed to me he’s not ready for a relationship right now. He’s working on his inner self and rebuilding himself before he gets into a serious relationship. He also goes to therapy. Should I continue being friends (“Courting” in his words) with him til he’s ready or should I move on?

[Anonymous]

I personally wouldn’t until the divorce is finalized. Not to be negative or anything but if they’re only separated then anything can still happen, some couples do end up reconciling after being separated and having seen other people.

I definitely don’t see anything wrong with the two of you being friends tho, just make sure the boundaries aren’t crossed (like going on dates, being affectionate, etc) so that there won’t be any confusions or expectations. Especially since he’s already stated that he needs time to work on himself for now. But the decision is completely up to you.

[serious]

The reason he gave is a very sound one. The fact that he wants to work on himself before he can commit to you is a great thinking.

[boggboss]

Thats upto you and if your willing to wait

[Anonymous]

No, absolutely not.