Should I even continue talking to this guy?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy recently started talking, he told me that he recently got left by his wife and he’d like to take it slow. At the beginning he was really excited to talk to me, and we stayed on the phone for hours. He was eager to meet me so I agreed and spent the night at his house, all we did was kiss and cuddle. The following day he seemed weird, and he told me that it felt like he was cheating. Since then he’s been really distant to me, and he hasn’t responded to my text for a few days now. He opened up to me and told me before that he was really hurting and wanted me to help him move on and emotionally support him so we could fall in love together. I’m so confused now. Mainly because he was excited to start something with me but it’s like he’s backing away from me. Should I just delete his number and forget about him?

[Agirlinneedhelp]

Just move on. He needs a rebound and enough time to heal from his past relationship and you don't need that (I assume). Unless he's like your perfect perfect type with great personality so you'd feel like he's the one that got away, then no, don't invest in this relationship anymore for now.

[rienna888]

Omg don’t be the rebound girl. You deserve better

[Asker]

that’s what this would be? he told me i wouldn’t be one. what exactly is a rebound

[rienna888]

Rebound is when a person is trying to get over their ex so they find a replacement. As he’s acting distant now, it means the rebound was not successful, he’s still attached to his wife. He’s gross, don’t let him

[Guy13]

Go with your "cheating instinct" and get out of this impending train wreck.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, move on. He is not worth wasting your time on.

[Iron_Man]

If he is still married, forget about it

[Asker]

yes he’s still married, she is with another guy now in another state

[Iron_Man]

It still has to be official finalized with the documents

[Asker]

yeah that process hasn’t even begun i think. i believe he lied about how long they have been separated

[Iron_Man]

You’re in a situation that is difficult you’ll just have to be friends until it’s over if you want to hang in there

[Iron_Man]

You don’t want to be known as an adulterous, even though they’re separated

[Asker]

i agree, i told him we could be friends but he also wants me to be exclusive with him? The first night we started talking he asked if i was talking to other men and said he’d like me not to

[Iron_Man]

Your best bet is probably to remain friends see what happens down the road you can start dating after the divorce