So I started seeing this guy about a few weeks ago and we had 5 or 6 dates. The last one went well I thought. We went bowling. Anyways, the early week goes on and he asks me when I’m free next. So as the week goes on like Thursday/Friday, I noticed this guy was being more distant with communication. I also have been slightly annoyed because he stinks at planning dates and pins it all on me to think of something. It’s fine but it was like every time. I also felt like communication was more surface level and not all engaging. So I said something kindly about it and said he’s been feeling weird the last several days but had a hard time explaining it. He’s told me from the beginning he wants a serious relationship and still has that desire but it may take him longer than expected. I encouraged space and thought he agreed but he kept trying to engage with me and keep the convo going. He did further express that there is more going on also pertaining to financial stuff. Anyways, Now we are at Saturday and aren’t hanging clearly. He’s kept texting me but I feel lead to give up because I just feel like he’s probably not that interested. Should I keep talking to him or let it go without saying anything further?
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You seem cursed when it comes to picking men, but hopefully it will improve. Also, please update your profile. Your text says you're 21 going on 22, but your age says you're 29. What are you?
I do feel cursed. Thanks for letting me know-didn’t realize that. I’m 29
If you’re not getting along with him why would you keep talking to him.
We are getting along fine and I enjoy his company. It’s just I feel a lack of interest or effort. I haven’t seen him at all this week and a lot of times when guys say they are going through something, it means they are interested. Although he did say a couple days ago he wasn’t talking to anyone and appreciated my transparency.
He could be busy at work or something.
Well this aged well