Hmm, I don't know about manipulative, but that is kind of a weird thing for him to bring up right after meeting. A couple red flags I see:
- Getting "bored easily" with people isn't really a toxic trait, it's more of an excuse to flake on people. Not cute.
- Him reminding you of that right before you hung up does come across as trying to pressure you or make you feel like you gotta respond quick. Not cool.
- Video chatting so soon and wanting to meet up fast also does seem a little rushed and pushy. Kinda disrespects your boundaries there.
At the same time, he might not have meant it in a manipulative way exactly - some people are just kinda oblivious. But either way, his communication style doesn't seem very considerate of your feelings from what you described.
Personally, I'd be wary of pushing things further if I were you. See how he behaves the next few times you talk - if he respects your pace or keeps pressuring. Trust your gut. There's no need to force anything, especially online. Don't settle just cause you kinda like him. You deserve someone who makes you feel comfortable!
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He sucks. He shouldn't try to pressure you by threatening to lose interest
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