I don’t want to talk to this guy anymore but he’s still interested and I’m craving the attention. How can I not feel lonely when not dating?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks now I’ve realized as much as he still thinks we’d be a good match I don’t think we are compatible. Aside from incompatibility I have a bit of a gut feeling and I’m trying to listen more to that because doing that would have saved me 2 bad relationships.

I’ve also realized I wanna work on some personal goals. Aside from this guy I haven’t really talking to a guy in maybe 2 weeks or so (not a lot but I get bored and I like having a guy to talk to.) That shows my problem I feel lonely when I’m not talking to anyone. How can I focus on me and not feel lonely when I’m not talking to a guy?

[James_Likes_PPL]

Nicotine takes the pain of depression away completely. Don’t smoke or vape. Try a zyn, it has no tobacco and won’t give you cancer. It’s addictive but not like how some people claim it is. I went on a two week vacation to Mexico and was fine and didn’t want any nicotine, why because I wasn’t depressed. Nicotine is a temp patch until you solve a problem and then It won’t be addictive anymore. Just be careful cause if you never feel the pain of loneliness, you miss out on some amazing people. The bad things in life are necessary for the good.

[Anonymous]

By keeping yourself busy with other aspects of your life.

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