Men, if you want a hot chick, you have to have money. And they require you to pursue them. Chicks that settle are ugly. Sorry 🤷🏼‍♀️, Do you get it?

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Before you come in the comments crying about facts, your anger will not change the facts.

Pay attention to the girls, chicks, women who are om here saying ," No, they don't.. I split the bill.. I pay for a man's date.. does he like me? I'm going to text him. Im his friends with benefits... he had sex then. won't talk to me? Should i call him?" Look at how they look? Every single one of them are unattractive.

Beautiful women cost.. They do not pursue men. They do not split the bill/pay for a man's bill, and they don't settle for the bare minimum, such as being a friend with benefits. Only the ugly ones do.

Men, if you want a hot chick, you have to have money. And they require you to pursue them. Chicks that settle are ugly. Sorry 🤷🏼‍♀️, Do you get it?

Danny_dan92 · Accepted Answer

The reason why that is the case is cause these women are constantly being approached by desperate men with large income.

Thus they eventually come to the mindset that, that is the standard. However not all hot girls are ok with dating an ugly and or old rich guy. Some do, but it’s the minority.

So then the remaining amount of women in this category want a “young, hot, rich guy” and truth be told that description of man makes up a VERY small percentage of men. This is also why often times women with this mindset and end up dating men like this, get cheated on. It’s the truth.

Reason why is cause these men are aware they make the top 5% of men, given the amount of them in the world they know there is a larger quantity of women single, available that would want them. So the likelihood of them settling to one is very unlikely

InspireGlow678 · Accepted Answer

Guys should pay

Finchie40 · Answer

I don’t care how hot a girl looks , if she only wants money to get her interest? ? won’t want nothing to do with her period , I rather have a girl that actually has a heart , that wants to be a team partner with me , we work together not against each other. Any girl that puts her hand out to me
Expecting me to take care of her so she doesn’t have to lift a finger. , is in for a rude awakening when I disappear on her selfish ass. Basically thanks for a good time but not a long time. am perfectly capable of providing and
Taking care of myself , I don’t need a girl to take care of me , I want a girl that supports me and has my back like I have hers. That’s the only type of girl i will even consider a relationship with. If money is the only thing that brings her happiness? she is in for a rude awakening when she realizes money isn’t everything. She can pretend she has it all , but the reality of it all, is she has nothing , because Love doesn’t come from money period She can sell herself all she wants , but she isn’t going to receive love she will only receive a dick and a reputation of being a whore.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Holy shit, you're shallow. Don't speak for us. We don't want you representing women or ruining our relationships with and to men.

AviatorTom · Answer

People may not want to hear this, but you can rent a hot chic by the hour... they're called escorts. 🙉🙊🙈

If an average guy wants a relationship, there are plenty of women out there who would be interested... some of them hotter than others.

Anonymous · Answer

Before I begin. I'm not going to be crying or be angry about those facts. I'm just going to speak from my experience. What worked for me, what is a fact, for me.

A year and a half back, I scored this hot chick. Not only has she lucked out with a pretty face and sexy gaze and curves, she's also 6 ft and actively works out, she is toned. She makes people turn their heads. We're still together.

Never have I shown off what I do or how much I make. Have I paid for the date? Yes. But she offered to split. And that tells me that she's committed and serious about this. That she isn't in it for the money. Which is why I stuck around. I paid because I invited her, not because I'm the man and she is the woman. Had she asked to go on a date and expected me to pay, I probably would have dropped her. Not my type of girl, hot or not.

Do we need to have money? To an extent yes. She wants to be safe, to survive. The parents want to know that the guy they entrust her to isn't going to be a psycho or broke so their daughter doesn't end up in the hospital or on the street. If you have a good and secure home, can pay the bills, have food on the table, she's going to be happy. Do I have to spoil her with gifts? No. A girl that requires you to spend on her because else she isn't going to be happy in a gold digger to me. I've bought gifts for my girlfriend, but Not ONCE has she asked for it. I do it because she's deserves it.

The title says that for a hot chick you have to have money. And the description as well, it's all about physical attributes. If being hot is all she's got going for her, she's useless to me as a partner. She goes on that friends with benefits list.

My girlfriend cooks, cleans, gives me plenty of sex and respects my wishes, listens to me, supports me emotionally. She offers more than just being pretty. If you want a hot chick, you don't need to have money, just time, charm and humor and you'll do just fine. I'm speaking

A good woman, hot as hell, but at the same time has the qualities of the future mother of your child, now that one is an investment. She doesn't need that expensive date upkeep, expensive jewelry upkeep, city trip upkeep, clothes upkeep. No. She is worth it, she doesn't need it, she might not even want it, but she's proven herself to be valuable enough for you to buy her something every now and then. And that something doesn't have to be much. I bought her a book with a love poem in it because I know she's a sucker for those, it was cheap, but she was all over me for 2 weeks.

So from my experience you have to have money to keep a hot chick who is at the same time a great person and partner... safe and healthy. NOT spoiled.

zeitgeist057 · Answer

While I would say this may be true more than 50% of the time, it's not always true. I'm not angry; there's no reason to be angry that you have this idea about the world, I understand how it would be easy to get this impression if you spend any time at all on social media or the internet.

But out here, boots on the ground, touching grass, it's a different story. Sure there are plenty of those dolled up gorgeous women who are trophy wives/girlfriends. But there are also plenty of gorgeous women who are with broke men, physically unattractive men, abusive men, &c.

Example 1: girl I met in my hometown. She was gorgeous, and dated a guy for over 4 years who was not that impressive. I think he made less than $50K/year. Long hair, dark skinned (native?), skinnier guy. He wasn't ugly but he wasn't a model. Maybe a 6 or 7/10, 8 at most if he was your type. He cheated on her was the only reason she broke up with him. I dated her for a while and felt like I hit jackpot, (I was also pretty broke) but she decided she wasn't into polyamory and also ended up moving.

Example 2: Another gorgeous woman, who just randomly asked me to go for a walk in the jungle and we had sex. There’s a bit more to the story but long and short of it was she was hot and wanted a hookup, i. e. sex without financial backing, with a random hot dude.

Those are just 2 examples of a few gorgeous women who I’ve dated/had sex with, while not being rich. There are plenty more. Hot chicks are just people, and they don’t all fit into your preconceived idea of what a hot chick will and won’t do. Another example is porn stars, who are as objectively hot as possible, since if they weren’t, no one would watch their porn, and they wouldn’t make any money. Hot chicks strip. Hot chicks work at Subway or as mail room clerks. Hot chick even EAT at Subway, believe it or not. They are just people like any other, and they come from all walks of life and have all sorts of different personalities.

Gag user examples: I think @lafemmefatale, @Smashingdoozy, and @LilyoftheLake are all beautiful women, but I have not seen any posts by them indicating they are only messing around with rich dudes. In fact @LilyoftheLake's lastest question says her boyfriend is broke.

Lastly, I think you’re talking about physically attractive women, right? I would point out that the trait of “only being with rich men” is synonymous with being materialistic and superficial, which is an unattractive, or an “ugly” trait. So I would counter-argue that the women who “won’t settle” and are materialistic, may be beautiful on the outside, but on the inside they are some of the ugliest ones out there.

ItsMariusz · Answer

I possess a very high income, particularly when compared to the average person. Even if I were interested in an attractive woman, I wouldn't actively pursue her, nor would I lavish her with gifts or bear the expense of extravagant items. No man, especially one with a significant income, is inclined to pursue a 'hot chick' based solely on her looks, unless they're considerably older and adrift, like the majority of billionaires.

The reality is, any man with a comfortable income seeks a woman with depth, someone who can complement their attributes, and, most importantly, be loyal. Beautiful women may bring aesthetic appeal to the table, but they often lack loyalty and depth, at least from my observations. To most men with substantial incomes and still relatively young, your value doesn't hinge on superficial treatments like being in their expensive car or receiving princess-like treatment.

"Men, if you want a hot chick, you have to have money." No man with financial stability desires an attractive woman who offers nothing beyond physical beauty. No, men don't need high income to be in a relationship with a hot chick, and if they do have high income, they most likely dont even need a hot chick to begin with.

And let's not forget, being naturally more attractive than others doesn't equate to the same value as achieving success through hard work, such as financial prosperity. Just because you're attractive doesn't automatically warrant entitlement, and this principle applies to both men and women.

I just wanted to share my perspective because it seems like many opinions are being sought on the matter, from many different guys.

Screenwriter · Answer

I think for women who think/believe/have gotten support that they're hot, or who are getting men based on looks alone, money is often their top requirement.

I'd disagree on these points: women who are FWBs or who split the bill, or have sex too quickly, or text too quickly or often are all ugly. Some of them are simply inexperienced or confused about how they should behave with and to men.

The extra "pretty" girls have more experience because they're approached more often and date more. They, likely, have pretty mothers and fathers who also had similar life experiences, which they share with their daughters.

They know how to dress, use makeup and carry themselves because of said experiences. They hang with women similar to themselves: more experience.

"Ugly" is pretty unusual. Most people are simply average, and you CAN dress up average with makeup, clothes, carriage, confidence, smarts. "Pretty" is also unusual. Great makeup and clothes, jewelry... in other words, CARE, make a huge difference.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I have a feeling, very close to being sure, that you are confusing concepts.

Men, indeed, like beautiful women. It is also true women prefer handsome, wealthy and well-built men. Those are facts, and it's hard to discuss them with them.

But...

Those are fantasies, which are very important for the human brain and mental well-being. Oh, we still have immature people who try to make the fantasies real, but it never ends well. Fortunately, it is a minority. Most of us accept the reality and plays well with it.

And what is reality? The reality is that we meet many people, and some of them catch our attention. Sometimes, it is a mutual feeling, sometimes not. But if it is a mutual feeling, we focus on it. We get to know the other person better, grow closer and develop feelings. Somewhere during this process, even if the person didn't really match the beauty canon, this person became the most alluring person in this world. Because they are the most important person for us.

We don't make relationships with wallets, dresses or statuses. We create relationships with minds...

And the rest are details. Some men want to pay for dates, and some women won't agree to that. Some women want to be pursued, and some want to be huntresses.

Don't decide for others, there is no one kind of woman. Each of us is different. And the same is true for men. Each of them is different. And it's the most beautiful thing in this world. You never know who you will find.

sawno · Answer

You are describing the girls that lack personality. The typical make-up doll full of themselves hot babes that are indeed just out for superficial things. Those have a price tag because they are very materialistic. Some guys find them hot, I personally don't since its not my type.

I go after natural beauty with personality, often a girl others would only rate averagely pretty who I think looks stunning. Someone I can match with on both an intellectual level and have a deep connection / bond with. With my type its not about money, its about connection and genuine experiences in the moment. Its the type of girl I wouldn't mind paying the bill for and will happily show I can take care of her, but its also the type of girl who will offer to split the bill because she's genuinely cares about me to.

So these "Hot chicks" ill just happily pass on to a guy who only cares about looks. He can have her and he can pay for her exclusivity. Ill keep looking for that special girl who isn't so superficial.

Singing_Hollow · Answer

Okay I am going to correct here because if a man is spending money on a women because she is just beautiful then he isn't very smart. Spend money on a women who respects you, has value and makes your life better. All good women should have a protector and provider and this doesn't mean dropping masses of money but just a house, food and a life where she can build a family and look after you back.

Splitting the bill has nothing to do with beauty, if a women brings value then why not show her that you can provide a life for her starting with buying food...

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

This is simply not true for every pretty girl. My best friend is stunning, she always gets told how pretty she is by strangers. And yet she's dating a normal, cute guy. He isn't rich. I have a couple of friends who are models with agencies in London as I work in fashion and they're dating all sorts of different types of men.

The "hot girls" who tend to only date millionaires are usually the instagram yacht "baddies" or the top pornstars or the supermodels who are already famous.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

LOL you have to be a fake guys account because the way you constantly put down other woman, and so childishly. No, the truth is I have friends that are very pretty and can't keep a guy, it is because they have big personality flaws or they are just hoes lol
Nothing to do with beauty.
Plus look at some of the guys Ariana sleeps with.. Spongebob *vomits* She still can't keep a man and she is very pretty LOL

Anonymous · Answer

Side chicks are not relationship or wife material, they're someone you pay with food or gifts for a service - because that's what they reduce themselves to. They're certainly not Partner material, and they've never been worth my time.

I have found someone beautiful who is magnetically drawn to me, plus another woman recently introduced herself to me, and a wealthier woman is in my DMs. I will pay for my dates, but I do not give any hints about my finances. Too many women are fickle opportunists nowadays, who don't have any interest in men beyond their utility.

The woman pictured looks attractive, sure; but not someone you feel drawn to, comfortable around, and loyalty from. Fickle women who are only interested in wealth are not relationship material, they've got entitlement issues.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Well I will chime in, I consider myself fairly wealthy, at least above the average person in my country. My best years I've made over 200k. I have absolutely no problem wining and dining women, or taking them on fancy trips, however, if they are not super into me I generally will not pursue them. I don't really work with the hard to get them. It's not that I can't do it, I know in the past I did it and eventually those women will get with me whether it's for sex or dating, but I find my best relationships are the ones that are instant fireworks, and there's no real moment when I'm in question of if she likes me or not.

hahahmm · Answer

Must be why there's so many formally hot women in their late 30s and up whining about how they can't get/keep a man. It turns out that men don't have to chase YOU & if all you have to offer are looks you won't be winning the race versus his other options. I mean after all, he could have 100+ women who are EACH fine as hell looking. The looks don't matter at that point.

TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff · Answer

Yes, if we want a hot chick we have to have money and that is nothing new BUT we only have to pursue them if we don't have enough money. If we have enough money they chase us around like moths to a flame and we have to do nothing but pick and choose. AND the prettiest of them settle for whatever they can get because their power to land a really wealthy guy is in the cooch. ANYTHING else he can buy if he isn't buying better cooches too.

Anonymous · Answer

The whole "hot girl" vs "ugly girl" thing, you have no idea what is and isn't attractive, to me. I don't really care what you think my partner looks like, everyone already knows that women are crazy judgmental and mean to other women for no reason.

I pay for the first few dates, as I'm the one who most likely did the inviting, but we aren't going to some crazy expensive restaurant or anything. I enjoy spoiling my girl, but a girl I'm getting to know and have been on a few dates with isn't my girl. I'm still trying to figure out if I even like her.

molonski2 · Answer

Yes , I think that is spot on , and I do often take a look when I see some of those answers , that's part of the entire " hot chick " thing , you have to pursue them , you have to have the money , and that's all part of it , and part of the challenge.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I have no use for a hot chick.

Both my wife and I come from wealthy industrial families, we love each other and are each other business' partner; she's the most beautiful woman for me and those so-called models don't interest me.

My father was the one who drooled after that kind of women, and he ended up marrying a foreigner.

jshm2 · Answer

Meh, that's bullshit. I've dated richer girls and poorer girls. It's not about money, or dick. But about mutual attraction, and comfort.

Perhaps that' why you're left with low quality and unsatisfying relationships. You've got poor standards.

Anonymous · Answer

Not necessarily, it depends on the culture. If she's an Instagram model or from a conservative places they expect men to pay. Many Dutch, English, German, and Swedish girls who are wonderful offer to pay. It depends on her intelligence and what type of guy she wants to attract. A lot of popular pretty models often initiate dating. Where I have seen average to ugly girls behave more entitled. It depends on the girls' personality and intelligence. If she's a dumb gold digger with no personality or talent except looks, she will only search for rich guys.

Apple1996 · Answer

I think men would rather be with a ugly woman then lol

Iron_Man · Answer

I totally disagree with this and this disappoints me and sets a bad example for women, when they’re very capable of having success instead of having to rely on a man and use their beauty to get what they want out of them

zagor · Answer

That is absolute BS. I've been with some very attractive women who weren't like that; if they were I wouldn't have bothered with them no matter how they looked. These were educated women as well, not the kind of bimbo you are referring to.

Anonymous · Answer

You have quite a sense of entitlement, and a messed up sense of what value you can have as a woman.

Maybe try being more than just a sex object and bring some other redeeming value to the relationship. If you just expect men to pay for your company and sex, that makes you nothing more than a prostitute.

Date_a_Snob · Answer

I disagree. I love my boyfriend and if he offers to pay and I would accept. I dont need his need money though. If he lost his job I wouldn't break up with him.

Jukes93 · Answer

Rather have a humble 6-7 than a trashy 10 any day. Besides, most women that think they are hot typically are not, and for the ones that are 10, it's temporary and will most likely be divorced in 5-10 years.

With all that being said, yes there are a few exceptions to that rule where a girl is a 10 and are still kind and humble. Those women are dubbed unicorns. You should really look into the hot/crazy chart lol.

TenderFantasy · Answer

No lol. Men will try to get away with whatever you allow them to, regardless of whether you are "attractive" or not.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I had two or three women interested in me primarily because of money. Quite honestly, the feeling of being seen as a living ATM made my skin crawl. :-(

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm not interested in plastic pussy! If all she's interested in is money, she can go fuck a banker!! Maybe I'll be interested in her when she grows up!

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Honey, if that's you in your profile pic, you're indeed on par with your chosen name here.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I don't have money. And I am ugly. I never had an issue with dating hot chicks.

Lionman95 · Answer

That´s more of a statement than a question. I don´t care I don´t look for high demanding girls.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I will pass, I can buy a hot chick for a few hours, and it will cost me less money in the long run.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

no shit I have to have the money! that is why I choose strippers and escorts instead cause at least with those I would always get my money's worth

Anonymous · Answer

I see, so beautiful women are essentially prostitues. I get it now. Thanks for being honest about the true nature of women.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe mostly true, but certainly not always.

nik0102 · Answer

or girls who settle have higher self respect than gold diggers

Nice222 · Answer

So why do I see so many wealthy men with ugly women?

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Absolute truth in this post. All women are prostitutes. And the better looking ones cost more.

Anonymous · Answer

You think men should pay for your time? You realize what that makes you, right?

Yoursweetgirl · Answer

Why you so angry about ugly chics. Girl chiiiil 😭

tzdc21 · Answer

Beauty means absolutely nothing without character.

Dassmen · Answer

So you are trash then?

Anonymous · Answer

I just want someone who will love me

Anonymous · Answer

Gee, ya think.

Men, if you want a hot chick, you have to have money. And they require you to pursue them. Chicks that settle are ugly. Sorry 🤷🏼‍♀️, Do you get it?

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