What are some signs the women your dating is crazy?

[Anonymous]

Curious what is usually seen

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Thanks

[OlderAndWiser]

An extreme range of emotions. Excessive drama or histrionics. Always blames others for everything bad that has ever happened to her. Very quick to cry at unusual times.

[Asker]

There was constant excessive drama

[OlderAndWiser]

How many of these seem to apply to her:

1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behaviour covered in criterion 5.
2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
4. Impulsivity in at least 2 areas that are potentially self-damaging (e. g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behaviour covered in criterion 5.
5. Recurrent suicidal behaviour, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behaviour.
6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e. g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).
7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e. g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3494330/

[Asker]

Definitely 8 she would throw temper tantrums and she would beat on me and our dog

[OlderAndWiser]

Read about borderline personality disorder. Impulsive behavior could also be associated with a substance abuse disorder.

[Asker]

So it’s funny you mention this because her sister has this diagnosis

[OlderAndWiser]

BPD? That was my initial suspicion based on your post. Forget this girl and move forward or you may regret it. I;ve been in your position, made the wrong choice, and regretted it. This condition will not get better in her next 10-20 years.

[exitseven]

She can be really nice and suddenly something sets her off and she becomes abusive. Then the next day she asks like it never happened.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what happened she would be really nice then something would upset her she would call me a stupid motherfucker, bitch, nuisance. She hit me in the head twice and she has hit our dogs numerous times and slammed him on his crate leaving a dent in it

[butterly248]

This maybe bipolar, a ex who hurt her etc.

[exitseven]

Iwish you never asked this question. It sort of brings it all back.

[Asker]

She said she came from childhood trauma and her ex Boyfriend sexually manipulated her. She told me that even after everything he did to her she still wanted to be with him but he moved on and had a child with another women. She even offered to be on the sideline he declined. She never removed him from social media

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[NathanDavis]

she cut off your dick... in the middle of the night

[sirderpsalot123]

When she gets mad you for something you did in a dream she had

[Anonymous]

When she is dating a crazy man, usually.

[Asker]

Ok I wasn’t I was the voice of reason because in public she would flip out on retail workers, she would throw a fit on anyone if she didn’t get her way

[butterly248]

Bipolar, an ex who hurt her etc.