I'm afraid to call my girlfriend because i'm scared of being annoying. how do I fix this?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I used to text all the time, and we would usually ask one another if we could call before we did. Now I'm in the part of my relationship where I don't hear from her for a long time and she sometimes doesn't see my texts at all. I still wanna talk to her but I'm afraid of bugging her or being annoying. I lack self-confidence and always need some form of reassurance before I do stuff. I'm afraid to call out of the blue.

[ManOnFire]

So let this be a key clue to what's going on: "Now I'm in the part of my relationship where I don't hear from her for a long time and she sometimes doesn't see my texts at all." The reason why she's doing this is because she's losing interest in you, and may be likely that she's interested in another guy. As I always tell people on GaG, a person who really likes you and wants to be in your life is not going to go distant or silent.

I say call her and talk it out. If she doesn't answer, or does but tries to dodge the situation, then that should be a clear indication that she's trying to let you go. And if you see that, give her what she wants and let her go. You don't deserve or need that kind of behavior.

[Iron_Man]

Kids will be kids you’re not old enough to date anyway, so don’t worry about it

[Anonymous]

Tell her just that, that you want to talk to her sometimes but you're afraid of bugging her so you don't know if it's ok to call out of the blue, or if there's a time when you could call her without problem.

[laly520]

u won't seem annoyed to her if she is fr into u

try calling but not so often

[dean53AU]

Maybe just send a text and say hello hope your well speak soon or similar