I'm scared to talk to my crush, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Im scared to talk to my crush! what should i do? I've been told to gain courage but its very hard. please help?

[kelly173815]

Okay, just answering both your questions in this one answer. I have no idea if he likes you from that information given, it really isn't enough without any other sort of communication with him. In regards to this question... just take a deep breath and talk to him like he is any other friend you have, don't put any pressure on the conversation, it's just friendly conversation. Don't be nervous, remember he's just a guy, and he's human as well, if you come off nervous or stutter or something like that, its not the end of the world, he'll probably just think it's cute.

[Tdieseler]

"Im scared to talk to my crush"... what do you want to do then? put him in a burlap sack?
you are going to have to talk to him at some point (is it a him? lol) just relax and breathe. walk up to said crush and say hello, you can give a compliment, then let them talk.. and you listen. what you are scared of is looking in their eyes, so when you give the compliment, focus on what you are complimenting them about, make the conversation about that for the time being. ( i honestly wonder whats gonna happen when its not just a crush )

[Asker]

yea its a him

[Tdieseler]

well you have got One out of many ways to approach... actually, that is the perfect way to approach for a shy person.

[TheBrit]

Golden Rule: Don't ask them out face to face out of nowhere, build a relationship first.

If possible, seamlessly integrate yourself into their surroundings, they might find it strange if you talked to them in a confrontational/random manner. See if you can find a way to enter their social circle, closing the gap would make any kind of interaction a lot more easier!

The more steps you take to building a relationship with them, the more courage you will have, it's natural to be nervous to approach your crush.

[pluckcur]

Don't be scared. He would probably be flattered.. If you don't tell him you would never know if he likes you. Go for it

[TheYellowBear]

The reason you can't speak to him is because you've built him up to be something he isn't.

[Asker]

what do you mean

[TheYellowBear]

Take him off the pedestal that you've placed him on. Realise that he's just a person, no different from you and then go and strike up a conversation with him.