I don't want to talk to my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

She's been at the beach for 2 days now and this morning was the first time she's talked to me since Friday night. It's weird though, she texted me and I just didn't want to talk to her...is this weird?

I told her Friday night to text me tomorrow whenever, and she never did...so I'm a little mad but its no big deal ha ha.

Oh by the way we've dated a little over a month but have known each other several months beforehand and we both love each other.

It's weird

It's not

It's okay to feel that way sometime (please explain your reason haha)

[Anonymous]

Okay I guess I will agree on some things the other people said..

But don't listen to them when they say you can't be in love with her.. I don't know if they noticed but I noticed that you said you've known her several months beforehand and people can fall in love with someone, and there is not a ceratin time or day you have to fall in love. You don't mean to fall you just do.

But anyways.. Its okay to not want to talk to her sometimes. You are probably just worried about what she is doing. Sometimes I don't want to talk to anyone, I just want to relax and have me time..

If you two spend a lot of time together maybe that's why you don't really want to talk to her because you are getting time to yourself.

[Asker]

Yeah I can see where you are coming from, we have been together a lot for several months ha ha thank you very much

[ilyurbella]

like it's okay to feel that way sometimes, but like if you really missed her, you would want to talk to her the moment she texted you. and no offense, but you can't love someone with dating someone for over a month. it takes a long time to actually know that you love them. You're IN love with her, but you don't love her. There's a big different.

[Asker]

Thanks! ha ha that means alot

[tallnhungjoe]

Sounds like you are mad about her being at the beach... Jealous and wondering what she was doing there.

You are trying to get back at her, and thinking that avoiding her will make her run to you.

You are playing games and so is she.

You are Not in Love... you do not even know her.

Have fun with her, and when it stops being fun, move on.

You are young... Youth is a time for fun.

Don't waste your time playing games.

Good luck.

Joe

[Asker]

No, I am not mad at her being at the beach or jealous. Second of all I am not trying to get back at her or am I playing games. And third of all, you DO NOT tell me if I'm in love acting like you've known my relationship from the beginning....and most of all you avoided my question completely.