Ok, I have been seeing this girl for about 3 years. I totally love her and it breaks my heart at the point we are in now. It's been 3 days since I've heard anything from her, besides when I text her and then she's just short and seems annoyed by me texting her. this is really breaking my heart and I've stopped texting her and I'm not going to call her, to see what she does about it, but I'm seriously at wits end here. what the hell do I need to do?
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well I was being an asshole to her about sex.
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which honestly is my biggest regret because its all I really think about. we broke up but got back together but she just doesn't call me at all.
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Well it looks like you have a plan to do something, but I know how hard that will be.
I know the feeling, but really its I would say the best thing to do is to let go.
You ever heard someone say,
"If you love something let it go, If it comes back to you, Its yours, and if it doesn't, It never was.
Well that's kind of the case here. Try not to take it to heart so early on, because it could turn out to be nothing. She could simply be going through a very rough time in her life.
Its no excuse, but people handle situations differently.
You'll know soon enough why she has been acting out of the norm.
I know when your in love, a day could feel like an eternity, let alone 3 days.
In actually though, its not the end of the world.
Just give it time.
Most answers can be found in time.
You just need the patience.
I pray for you right now, for patience.
3 Years to 3days?
Don't let that ruin what you have with her.
She doesn't know your freaking out like this, but you also don't know what's going on with her.
One thing I say to myself and other is:
"Get the Facts, Before You Act"
Good Luck Man
Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
You need to go round to hers, sit down and talk to her face to face. Be mature about this and be strong. Txting or calling is not the best method and is mature. Be honest with her about how you feel and apologise to her for your behaviour and also ask her to be honest about what she wants and how she feels.
Communication is key to any sucessful relationship and when it comes to have a serious talk it is always best to do it face to face some where in private where you can be alone.
Call her and say that you need to meet up so that you can talk. If she loves and cares about you back which I'm sure that she does then she will be willing to listen and talk things through. You should be able to work through this. Just show her how mature you can be.
If she is not willing to talk and get through this then sorry to say you are not meant to be. I know it will be hard and take time but you can do it and everyone unfortunatley goes through heart ache some time in their lifes. You are still quite young and have plenty of time. Just go out and have fun with your friends, get a hobby, join the gym or a club to take your mind off things. Enjoy being single for a while and when the time is right and you least expect it you will meet someone when you least expect it.
Well I thank you for your advice but she broke up with me via text message the other day, it hurts and it will for awhile but this is like 8th time she has broken up with me, so I think I'm done with the immature shinnanigans. I really thank you for your advice and ill always keep it in mind.
ok first of all, what did you do to cause her to act this way?