What to do if girlfriend won't talk to me after an argument?

[akzimli]

What should I do? I have apologized but she is furious. I didn't cheat on her. But I told her my ex was with me when I started catching feelings for my current girlfriend. I thought she knew about my previous relationship so I never confronted her. She said she doesn't want to talk to me rn. Should I give her this space?

[maniacalt]

From a girls opinion, this is a red flag for me. If you can catch feelings while in another relationship, what’s to say you won’t do it to me too? You need to let her know why she is different than her. Give her space but not too much or she’ll believe you don’t care.

[akzimli]

I apologized. Even made her a playlist of songs which ask for an apology and sent her. She liked it but even now she doesn't want to talk. I think giving space is good. It's so difficult though. Because that person literally becomes a part of your life. Not talking feels incomplete.

[maniacalt]

How long has it been since she said she doesn’t want to talk?

[akzimli]

Been 2 days, she says she has cooled down but doesn't really feel like it. We don't talk as much we used to. I do text in between asking about how is she and if everything is okay and just being patient with her in general. Can't completely ignore her when she has aked for space. Just giving her little attention hopefully things will improve. (Fingers Crossed 🤞)

[Anonymous]

This happened to me and this exactly why I am on strong limits. That shit hurts