This girl gets so mad when I don't talk to her?

[Anonymous]

I think its kinda funny that a girl who calls me annoying and a jerk and a bunch of other stuff would get upset when I stop talking to her.

I try to talk, but she acts all annoyed and uninterested but SO INTERESTED in what everybody else says, so when I keep my distance, I don't know what goes through her mind that she will find me and try to have small talk and try to get me to talk and while a lot of times I will go along, sometimes I get so annoyed by her behavior that I ACT like I don't wanna talk to her and she gets upset. I really don't know why, because if I'm all those things she claims I am, I would think she would be OK with me not talking, but she gets mad and wants me to apologize and to tell her I'll never do it again and to think before I act, I mean, really? Does she want me to talk to her or not? SHe claims she want to talk to me but she is always making fun of me, critizicing me and overanalyzing everything I do or say.

SHe seems to have a better time with other people so I don't know why she even bothers asking me questions and trying to get me to talk, why is she acting like this?

[SolidusSnake]

I'm having a similar situation. Except your girl seems to like you, and you are doing her a disservice by returning the same energy in conversation. Initiate creative and interesting conversations with her, and take her out. I am annoyed by a certain girl's behavior, because she always flirts with all the guys and has fun with them except for me, and talks with all of them really easily. I feel as if sometimes she's just avoiding conversation with me. It doesn't really make sense. She's always outgoing and loud and friendly with them, but with me she'll be quiet and nonchalant.

For me, the girl laughs at all the jokes I make in class, but she flirts with all the other guys and does things like wearing their jackets and sits near them. She never sits near me. Also, when we are the only two people in the room, she doesn't talk with me, and she's really quiet, which is not how she acts around everyone else. Maybe she thinks I'm weird, or maybe she's shy, I don't know. When I come to talk with her, her voice becomes really soft and quiet, compared to how loud she is with all her other friends. Also, she always looks down at her phone when she talks with me, and occasionally smiles or makes eye contact. I don't know what to do… she just walks past me and sits relatively close to me, but not next to me, even when the whole room is empty. She used to initiate convos, but I hardly did because I was shy too. I feel like I'm losing her, but sometimes I catch her looking at me, but I don't do anything about it. I wish I could do something, but I don't know if she's just shy or thinks I'm weird, or uninteresting. I'm definitely one of the funniest guys she's met, and we've known each other for 6 months, used to be good friends, but don't talk much anymore. Can you help me out, perhaps?

[AnonymousGlRL]

She is being immature and probably likes the attention you give her. So she notices when you stop giving her attention by not talking to her. She also might be teasing you because she likes you.

[Asker]

I really don't like seeing her upset but its SO annoying when she tries to act all distant when I'm obviously making an effort but she tells ME that I should "see" her effort when she tries to talk to me and not be a jerk. Sometimes I'm not even trying to be a jerk, I'm just not in the mood to talk and she takes it personally and when I try to explain it to her, we have these arguments and when I try to walk away from arguments, she tells me I don't care to solve the situation bla bla :/

[AnonymousGlRL]

Your arguments make you two sound like you guys are dating. Have you tried asking her out. Might be some sexual tension there.