Why do some girls get upset so easily?

[Wolfie128]

So i am 19 and there is this girl (she is 20) i like a lot. And she probably know that i like her, i think she likes me too but who knows. We are just talking and chatting with each other that's all. The thing I don't understand is why does she get upset so easily. She won't talk to me, she ignores me etc... I do like the smallest mistake such as: did not answer her question ( i was doing something) or i don't even know. Just small things so to say (not that imported). I mean she has made those same mistakes (not answering a question, etc...) i was always cool with it. I did not get mad or upset. Please can someone explain to me. Thank you.

[LifeEqualsLove]

She doesn't know how you feel about her ans when you do what may seem like small things.. they are really BIG things to her triggering her anger.

Tell her how you feel about her in a clear way.. that way if you do get busy and don't answer her texts.. she knows you're not purposely ignoring her.

[Wolfie128]

clear way? Ahhhhh, i don't know what you mean. To be honest with you this is my first time actually liking someone.

[LifeEqualsLove]

Aw well start by telling her you care about her

[Wolfie128]

trying but it seems it does not work

[LifeEqualsLove]

What did you say to her?

[Wolfie128]

said that I'm sorry. And did not mean her to get upset or be angry in any kind of way. But as i said she won't talk to me

[LifeEqualsLove]

Hopefully she comes around.

[LifeEqualsLove]

Tell her you really care about her and will wait for her to talk to you again

[Anonymous]

Lol it sounds like the boy I like and me, but in a different country (even we have the same ages). I don't know what to answer you, maybe she's a bit jealous or insecure.
In my case, I decide to stop getting upset so easily when I realised he's a really nice guy with me and doesn't deserve it.

[Wolfie128]

well thank you for your story... but that does not really help my problem.

[Flowsmez]

a girl gets upset easily when she cares. We actually see things differently, we overthink and overreact about the smallest things because some of us are so sensative that they take everything too personally.

[Wolfie128]

so the girl (that i like) is so to say overthinking or over reacting or whatever it is. So what should i do then? I mean i try to listen as much as i can, but you know mistakes do happen. Anyway to solve the problem when the girl gets up set?

[Flowsmez]

I'm like her and she only wants your attention, and affection. There's not really a solution, first of all, have a proper talk with her, tell her you are sometimes busy and you can't always reply. When you are busy doing something, tell her because she is not supposed to guess it and most important thing, us girls talk about 10x stuff at the same time, and you guys only reply to the last one and this makes us so upset, give her back the attention she gives you.

[Wolfie128]

so theoretically saying. I should give her more attention. But i have been doing that already, i mean everyone always says "every girl" is different. But thanks for the tip

[confidentialGagger]

Girl is nervous to those only she likes! or even more than likeness. You just have to be consistent and expressive.. And don't express anything from her... She will give you response only

[Wolfie128]

"consistent and expressive"? don't really know what you mean?

[Dim_121]

Women take things differently. You can't treat them like tour guy friends. Simple remarks they take differently and personally. Where as a guy takes it at face value and won't take it personally.

[cavmanier]

She is probably commonly angry from feeling irritated or stressed.

[Wolfie128]

hmmm ok. ill think about it. Thank you

[ThunderButt83]

because most girls are spoiled brats, and are used to getting what they want when they want and in their way.

[sp33d]

Well, if you insist on playing mind games, act like you don't care. Talk to her as usual, in a cold fashion.

[Ladyslipper]

Cuz girls are always emotional and hypocritical lol

[kaylaS91]

lol don't be so hard on yourself