"I feel that she has no respect for me at all... I just now ask her if she really love me and care for me.. she told me she don't know.. I still bear a grudge on that Facebook matter.. I talk to her about it, and I am thinking that she did not tell people that she got a boyfriend because she is doing something behind my back... what to do now?"
To do: get her out of your mind, then think about the girl you want. Finally, compare the girl you want with this girl, does she even come close? If yes, stay. If not, leave. Another reason for clinging to her is --- is this a war? Before you can conquer her, you will fight till you win? Or, you want revenge, like playing games with her mind until she fall for you, then dump her, so that she hurts just like you do, preferably more? You need to ask yourself if you stay, "Why? Only you know".
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1. Find a girl who doesn't make you jeolous.
2. Work on yourself (fear, insecurities, possessiveness, controlling personality, childhood abuses/trauma ...etc.) There are many good articles/videos on the internet on how to deal with jeolousy.
Bear in mind, your happiness is YOUR responsibility; not your girlfriend's. Think about this, and act upon it.
She will not grow up until she loses you because she's being an insensitive b*tch and getting away with it.
I had a jealous boyfriend once but I always reassured him that he's my only one. I am possessive, too, so I understand what being jealous easily is like.
She isn't a good gf. You won't want to hear this but you sound like a p**** for even wanting to stay with her. She sounds like a total bitch. You should finish it. A girlfriend should be there to talk about problems with you.
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oh man..i really am not sure...well she is being unfair because she won't let you say how you feel. if she broke up with you once just because you said how you felt then she has issues. if she likes you enough she wouldn't let such a foolish subject upset her enough to break up with you.
Your girlfriend should be more understanding, and should want to talk about your problems. There's no other way to help but by listening to you. And it seems she doesn't want to do that.
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