Time to get back in the saddle?

[red324]

I got banned from tinder about a year ago and was literally the only source of dates for me. It didn't take much to land one. Definitely took the wind out of my sales because I've only been on two dates the whole year. I can't land a date on any other app for some reason. Lol

Now with that being said, I finally decided to maybe go to Walmart 2 or 3 times a week and approach girls. Seems like the best option since the bars are only open on the weekends in my area ever since covid. I'm hoping maybe I'll find someone decent in real life. It seems like all the problematic girls are online. Narcissistic, broken, emotional mess, the list goes on with these girls I've found on dating apps. None of them ever stuck around either not that they probably would have done any good for me anyways.

Opinions?

[devilish-cutie]

Well its good to try to meet people everywhere but you have all kinds of people everywhere. Im sure you had dates you met in rl n that didn't work out either so prople on dating apps aren't necessarily worse. I wonder if someone really wants to gind a partner why they dont use an app cause nowdays at our age that is almost only way to meet someone new.

[Zestyassmf1997]

I don’t really get the question.

[red324]

I guess I'm just asking if many of the problematic girls are online and hoping to find a normal one in real life for once

[Zestyassmf1997]

Oh yeah. People always act different online.

[FunkyMonkee]

What were you selling?

[Anonymous]

Why did you get banned? lol

[red324]

They don't tell you! Lol I could be any reason. Someone could have reported me and made something up. I don't know. It's very common and they make it really hard to setup a new account.

[Opinion Owner]

That sucks. Sorry that happened. But. If you wanna meet a girl worth your time, good luck. Your best bet is going after a girl who isn’t too hot. 9 times outta 10 she isn’t use to being approached by men so if you approach her she’ll respond positively. Especially in the grocery store (not Walmart) try target or something a little more high endish. Good luck 👍

[red324]

That's a good point. I haven't noticed much difference between personality and looks though. An ugly girl can be just as emotionally damaged as a hot one.

[red324]

That's also the reason why I wanted to try approaching in real life. They have too many options on dating sites, so their standards are through the roof.

[red324]

I'm just an average looking guy. Not ugly, but not super hot either.

[Opinion Owner]

If you’re average (and not on the ugly end of average) then you shouldn’t have an issue finding a decent girl who isn’t off the scale hot, in public.

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me most times if you approach them tastefully then they will respond positively.