At your age, would you have a problem dating someone who?

[Anonymous]

1. Has a kid, and doesn't have a great relationship with their child's mother/father

2. Has a history of trauma, bad previous relationships, was suicidal years ago, frequent depression or anxiety

3. Had a reputation for sleeping around, a few years ago

4. Only has 2-3 friends, and isn't particularly outgoing

5. Is a bit "soft"/not an alpha/not dominant

Yeah, I'd have a problem with all of them

Yeah, I'd have a problem with most of them

Yeah, a few, would be no no's

Only one, would I have an issue with

None of them, would be a problem

[Anonymous]

i'm 23 and yea personally would kinda have problem with that. if you're a baby daddy under 25 with a history of terrible relationships and ongoing mental illness for years its bad news. like if i date you its probably not going to go well, and we won't be able to have a normal early 20s relationship because of your kid. dont care though about the sleeping around when you were 19 or not being the most extroverted person ever, also dont want a guy like andrew tate so dont care about the number 5 unless by soft you mean your a doormat.

[LazerBean]

All of the above, except for maybe the last one since people make up their own definitions of that.

[Asker]

What would be wrong with number 4? Just curious

[LazerBean]

I'm a social person and I wouldn't be interested in someone who is going to make that a pain.

[Phoenix98]

Probably the one I'd have the biggest problem with would 1#

Because not having a great relationship with your family speaks to a whole host of issues not only with the person but the family itself and I wouldn't want to get involved with someone like that you can learn a lot by someone by how they treat their family especially their parents and siblings.

Also I have a strict policy on not dating single mothers.

[HighValue]

Numbers 1 and 3 would be a problem in my opinion.

[HelpfulWoman]

soon as a man lets you know he thinks the "alpha/beta" shit exists, its time to dip people!

[Nikki1989]

Only number 4 would raise red flags.

[KızlarÖpüldünüz]

I will ask something