What can I do to have my boyfriend enjoy hanging out with me more?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and i hangout like 2-3 times a week but i want to hangout more- however he would rather hangout with his friends. i asked him why once and he said it’s because i nag and complain too much. ngl it is true. i do complain and i do nag about him hanging out with his friends more and never taking me out anywhere to eat. so what can i do to have him want to hangout with me more?

[RoseySarah]

How long have you to been dating?

Well we know he is not serious about you cause he prefers his friends.

Honestly he won't! your probably a side thing most bfs vastly prefer to hang out with Thier girl or why not both?

If he is saying your nagging about needing attention he is not worth it! Really here is a big hug find someone who is happy to give you the attention you need.

Not just wants you around sometimes! I'd make sure he would not get any till he gives you what you need!

[Anonymous]

You first need to stop with the nagging. Men never respond well when us women nag and complain. It makes us unpleasant to be around and it makes us unattractive. A man’s life is stressful enough without having someone else making things worse.
As you do this, look for ways to make your home and your life more inviting. Consider practicing hospitality; suggest having your boyfriend and his friends come over so you can all spend time together. You get to spend time with him, he gets to spend time with you and his friends, and you have the opportunity to show his friends that you are a good girlfriend. Because chances are, he’s talking about your relationship with his buddies.

[Anonymous]

So 2-3 days isn’t enough for you? To me that’s plenty, but in a male I don’t need that much attention. First of all stop nagging him. As people have already pointed out men don’t like that. You’re trying to turn him into something he’s not. If that’s what you want find a man who wants the same. Eventually he’s going to resent you because you’re making him feel like he has to pick between you and his friends. I’m sure his friends have been around a lot longer than you have. Trying to get him to spend more time w you could end up backfiring. Because if he spends way too much time w you he may get bored w you quicker.

[Asker]

what’s the point of marriage then?

[Asker]

if you can’t spend time with your person everyday because you’ll get bored then what is the point?

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so what if he spent 4 days w you? Would that be enough. People still need space, women tend to crowd men a lot for affection. Honestly it can get annoying especially when you have important things to do and she’s like you. I think maybe you need to work on your inner happiness, a man can’t do that for you. Sure he can make you smile, laugh, but you need to find that in yourself than things will be better.

[Anonymous]

Why on earth are you trying to mold this man into the boyfriend you want him to be? It’s like beating a dead horse. You can’t nag him into changing or wanting to hang out with you more. It’s either accepting who he is or dropping him and finding someone who wants to see you just as often as you want to see them.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Steal his precious thing from him and run, 😭he will always chase u

[HouseMoat]

Do more things he wants to do